hmm part of asia where i live still thinks it's gay to call some other dude cute. personally i would only say someone is good looking if he's brad pitt or some ridiculously famous guy . i feel majority of filipinos feel the same way about it too. i woulndt call flips "asians" though, we take more from the malay race more than oriental.
if you're gay its different & perhaps you like cute looking guys (how you dress is also important for this imo) but then theres no issue calling a guy cute.. so i'm assuming you're talking about two heterosexual males in which case cute isn't usually something they're going for
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
also women tend to cross gender lines(kiss for a laugh or a dare) when drunk and be perfectly fine with themselves. hetero males can't do this without really feeling like he's crossed the line and might be a bit gay inside lol
On September 05 2010 23:20 GiYoM wrote:
men are homophobic in america because they don't grown up taking group showers in elementary school. you don't have that problem (homophobia) in Asia.
this, start taking showers with your friends more often and this will go away
arrange a shower day where a bunch of people you know including yourself take a shower together
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us and as we let our own lights shine we unconsciously give other people permision to do the same
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
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Jhyun88 United States. Sep 06 2010 03:03. Posts 1383
On September 05 2010 23:20 GiYoM wrote:
men are homophobic in america because they don't grown up taking group showers in elementary school. you don't have that problem (homophobia) in Asia.
this, start taking showers with your friends more often and this will go away
arrange a shower day where a bunch of people you know including yourself take a shower together
I used to go to Korean bath places with my friends all the time and no we didn't wear swimming shorts...
When I came to U.S and went to YMCA or something, people were taking showers with their swimming shorts on in the lockers... wtf?
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LikeASet United States. Sep 06 2010 03:06. Posts 2113
Nothin wrong with using the word handsome. Tough I think it's even weird for a guy to reference any female as cute unless she's a baby. Very annoying when girls use overuse the word "cute".
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terrybunny19240 United States. Sep 06 2010 03:40. Posts 13829
On September 05 2010 23:20 GiYoM wrote:
men are homophobic in america because they don't grown up taking group showers in elementary school. you don't have that problem (homophobia) in Asia.
this, start taking showers with your friends more often and this will go away
arrange a shower day where a bunch of people you know including yourself take a shower together
I used to go to Korean bath places with my friends all the time and no we didn't wear swimming shorts...
When I came to U.S and went to YMCA or something, people were taking showers with their swimming shorts on in the lockers... wtf?
dun got people concerned in the showers
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YoMeR United States. Sep 06 2010 03:52. Posts 12438
I remember from my time in China that a lot of guys were holding hands as well. But then again there is no thing as homosexuality in China (according to the state)
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qwerty67890 New Zealand. Sep 06 2010 06:32. Posts 14026
its like that here in Thailand too, guys will hold hands or link arms or walk with their arms around them.
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Jhyun88 United States. Sep 06 2010 08:00. Posts 1383
On September 06 2010 05:32 byrnesam wrote:
its like that here in Thailand too, guys will hold hands or link arms or walk with their arms around them.
guys holding hands is still weird...
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qwerty67890 New Zealand. Sep 06 2010 08:44. Posts 14026
just now i went to the shop and saw 2 old guys probably 75+ strolling down the road with their arms around each other.
It was nice to see that kind of camaraderie. I don't see why any physical contact with another man has to be snap labeled sexual.
Guys holding hands is definitely supergay here. But i don't see many girls holding hands either.
Girls kissing (polite) is fine, while for guys it isn't...
Girls french kissing when going out is fine, while for guys it isn't...
Not that I would fancy snogging a guy but ofc it's not the same. Most girls also dig lesbian porn more than gay porn, just like guys. I'm totally fine with that .
Depends on the culture i suppose but its really weird to other cultures where holding hands like that would be percieved as being intimate or in love for the most part.
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
On September 05 2010 23:20 GiYoM wrote:
men are homophobic in america because they don't grown up taking group showers in elementary school. you don't have that problem (homophobia) in Asia.
this, start taking showers with your friends more often and this will go away
arrange a shower day where a bunch of people you know including yourself take a shower together
im incredibly "homophobic" in this sense, i cant stand to be around naked men, i get horribly anxious and agitated.......i have no real idea why. i cant stand it and it makes me feel weak and pathetic to be like this
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qwerty67890 New Zealand. Sep 06 2010 09:46. Posts 14026
It just is, like its fine if you would say handsome or good looking but cute just isnt a manly thing to be or for you to think of some dude as cute is just weird. Its like for some reason you could watch 2 guys have sex but its much more uncomfortable to watch 2 guys make out(especially if they have beards).
On September 06 2010 08:46 byrnesam wrote:
I can answer that
youre insecure about the size of your cock.
i am 5.8'' long and 5.8'' circumference, i shudnt be insecure abt it but maybe i still am subconsciously. but maybe im insecure abt my body in general due to deformity/ugliness. but more likely its a mental insecurity like "curiosity" or "dont look becoz ur not supposed to!!!" which makes u overthink and get anxious
i was brought up by parents very very conservatively, tv channel was always changed if there was kissing, words like "ass" "snog" and "bum" where completely banned and unthinkable etc
im pretty sure its this "dont wanna act weird so get anxious about acting weird which causes u to act weird" dilemma
on the subject, i think if i called a guy cute then id consider kissing him if i got drunk (but beyond kissing is gross to me)
On September 06 2010 08:46 byrnesam wrote:
I can answer that
youre insecure about the size of your cock.
i am 5.8'' long and 5.8'' circumference
???
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
It sounded a little large but i found some old measuring thing and its normal.
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
On September 05 2010 23:58 whamm! wrote:
also women tend to cross gender lines(kiss for a laugh or a dare) when drunk and be perfectly fine with themselves. hetero males can't do this without really feeling like he's crossed the line and might be a bit gay inside lol
wat
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terrybunny19240 United States. Sep 06 2010 17:34. Posts 13829
amazing, my jaw dropped when I saw that measurements were posted
On September 06 2010 17:27 Stroggos wrote:
while we are on the subject, why is it weird to walk around with no clothes on in public? Imo people should be allowed to walk around naked.
because legislation is based on morality thus doing that is illegal despise it is absolutely irrational to deprive a man of his freedom solely on the fact that he chooses not to wear pieces of fabric over his body.
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Critterer United Kingdom. Sep 06 2010 18:44. Posts 5337
On September 06 2010 08:58 EvilSky wrote:
It just is, like its fine if you would say handsome or good looking but cute just isnt a manly thing to be or for you to think of some dude as cute is just weird. Its like for some reason you could watch 2 guys have sex but its much more uncomfortable to watch 2 guys make out(especially if they have beards).
this.
ive watched some really fucked up shit on the net (as im sure most of you have also) but one of the things that really made me squirm was watchin episode of true blood where 2 guys are just making out i was like ughhhh and had to look away... but watching 2 japanese girls shit all over each other didnt make me blink...
cant really explain it either, i dont consider myself homophobic at all.
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