I remember from my time in China that a lot of guys were holding hands as well. But then again there is no thing as homosexuality in China (according to the state)
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qwerty67890   New Zealand. Sep 06 2010 06:32. Posts 14026
its like that here in Thailand too, guys will hold hands or link arms or walk with their arms around them.
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Jhyun88   United States. Sep 06 2010 08:00. Posts 1383
On September 06 2010 05:32 byrnesam wrote:
its like that here in Thailand too, guys will hold hands or link arms or walk with their arms around them.
guys holding hands is still weird...
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qwerty67890   New Zealand. Sep 06 2010 08:44. Posts 14026
just now i went to the shop and saw 2 old guys probably 75+ strolling down the road with their arms around each other.
It was nice to see that kind of camaraderie. I don't see why any physical contact with another man has to be snap labeled sexual.
Guys holding hands is definitely supergay here. But i don't see many girls holding hands either.
Girls kissing (polite) is fine, while for guys it isn't...
Girls french kissing when going out is fine, while for guys it isn't...
Not that I would fancy snogging a guy but ofc it's not the same. Most girls also dig lesbian porn more than gay porn, just like guys. I'm totally fine with that .
Depends on the culture i suppose but its really weird to other cultures where holding hands like that would be percieved as being intimate or in love for the most part.
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
On September 05 2010 23:20 GiYoM wrote:
men are homophobic in america because they don't grown up taking group showers in elementary school. you don't have that problem (homophobia) in Asia.
this, start taking showers with your friends more often and this will go away
arrange a shower day where a bunch of people you know including yourself take a shower together
im incredibly "homophobic" in this sense, i cant stand to be around naked men, i get horribly anxious and agitated.......i have no real idea why. i cant stand it and it makes me feel weak and pathetic to be like this
Last edit: 06/09/2010 09:46
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qwerty67890   New Zealand. Sep 06 2010 09:46. Posts 14026
It just is, like its fine if you would say handsome or good looking but cute just isnt a manly thing to be or for you to think of some dude as cute is just weird. Its like for some reason you could watch 2 guys have sex but its much more uncomfortable to watch 2 guys make out(especially if they have beards).
On September 06 2010 08:46 byrnesam wrote:
I can answer that
youre insecure about the size of your cock.
i am 5.8'' long and 5.8'' circumference, i shudnt be insecure abt it but maybe i still am subconsciously. but maybe im insecure abt my body in general due to deformity/ugliness. but more likely its a mental insecurity like "curiosity" or "dont look becoz ur not supposed to!!!" which makes u overthink and get anxious
i was brought up by parents very very conservatively, tv channel was always changed if there was kissing, words like "ass" "snog" and "bum" where completely banned and unthinkable etc
im pretty sure its this "dont wanna act weird so get anxious about acting weird which causes u to act weird" dilemma
on the subject, i think if i called a guy cute then id consider kissing him if i got drunk (but beyond kissing is gross to me)
On September 06 2010 08:46 byrnesam wrote:
I can answer that
youre insecure about the size of your cock.
i am 5.8'' long and 5.8'' circumference
???
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN