Need Advice

lol floofy nice read but do you even need to ask LP's opinion here?

get him out of the fucking apt

kick him out
get another roomate
what's the problem?
comon man...you have a brain (i guess)... you can use it sometimes...

TBH after i wrote the post i was like "well why do i even ask them answer is obvious" but i posted it anyways lol

floofy gonna floof

I understand why you'd post it but yeah.... get that guy out of there for sure. I mean talk it over with your gf and her brother, or bring a good friend of yours over and let him know what's going on. Put your friends in another room or w/e so the guy doesn't feel intimidated, then tell the guy he needs to find a new place to live or w/e, give him the minimum amount of time required by law.

Or maybe since he does seem pretty fkn crazy, someone has a better idea of how to get the cops involved and make it so he has to leave immediately.. might be safer/smarter.

this is just IMO and I don't have first hand experience with this, but it seems like a reasonable course of action..

wow. insta life ban imo. people like that will always find ways in bringing unnecessary drama to your lives

Seriously in the past other things happened but never went that far. Example:

The oven was strange (doing weird sounds) and my gf asked to go ask the guys if any of them noticed anything.

I go ask them "did any of you break the oven or something?"

The brother just goes "no" and thats it. The roomate goes something like "WHAT, YOU THINK IF I BROKE IT I WOULDN'T HAVE TOLD YOU WHATTTTTT OMGGG ...etc" that time i again got pissed and told my gf that the roomate fucked up (purposely loud enough so he hears it) and he again got pissed off, but that time nothing really happened other than yells (i think he would not go too crazy when the gfs's there).

I think ill talk this out with my gf tommorow but once she finds out he was threatening me i think shell want him booted.

Just be straightforward, firm, and united. It's a shame this guy is mentally ill.

You should tie his shoelaces up really tight and throw them onto the dance floor and then shake his hand.

DOUBLE POST LOL

On October 08 2011 23:32 byrnesam wrote: You should tie his shoelaces together really tight and throw his socks onto the dance floor and then shake his hand.

FYP for real

standard answer would be to kick him out but if you really feel like he can change you give him 1 more chance and the next outburst he has or does anything you do not approve of he gets the boot. To be observant though, someone who has this type of mental illness can't change his thoughts without some help. I think he needs a lot of help and you should try helping him find out the root of his sickness. Have you tried reasoning or talking in a civilize way? Give him some bud usually that solves my problems

floof, let's not make this the looks or game thread. if you come back in 6 months and this guy is still living w/ you and just set your g/f's cat on fire b/c you ignored him and rolled your eyes at breakfast while spelling out "fuck you fuck up" in your alphabet cereal i don't even know.

be a man and handle the situation.

lol I would easly call him fucked up again and beat his ass off once he tries to punch me, and YES life ban for him

arent you afraid that he might slice your throat at night?

Yeah, but ur a big black guy Tutz!! You can do shit like that!!

Think it'll be "harder" and more "complicated" the longer you wait, someone said it up there, tell gf and bro, and give him whatever he has left of the month to get out, and get someone else in xD

Kick him out, how can you even ask about this.

You do realize this guy is able to kill you during you sleep, right? Find someone else for $150 and kick him out.

call him fucked up again and see what happens

He can't yell at you if he's dead.


...Jus' sayin'.

dont risk the safety of you and ur gf. Nice guys get taken advantage of. Get rid of him

neillys back lol

i was so excited to see a floofy blogpost

then i click and it's all tl;dr =[

get him out of the apartment before he hurts you. he obviously has some anger issues and control issues.

good to see you on the forum floofy

also since you are worried about the GF, why not offer to pay a little bit of that 200 since it is your decision to remove him. im sure even offering something like 50 a month would go a long way towards showing her you care and that the move was about safety, comfort, etc

don't get another roommate either. learn your lesson.

pics of gf

+1 he tries to kill you in your sleep

take all your kitchen knives and his antidepressants. Or just install a camera so the police knows he is the killer lol

Kick him out ASAP.

You should not tolerate this. It's your apartment and he doesn't fit in.

Give him like 26 more chances and then if he's still nuts give him like 8 more chances and then just move out and break up with your girlfriend so you don't have to confront him.

On October 09 2011 11:32 morph1 wrote: pics of gf

I'm pretty sure theres things you ain't telling us floofy, I mean why is that you are the only one who appears concerned about this fucked up guy and neither your gf nor her brother appear to be? and why is he only doing crazy against against you and not doing it vs his other roomates, I think theres more to the story...

locoo i am the kind of person who will sometimes say the things in a funny/annoying way on purpose. Example:

instead of asking "has any of you broke the oven" i could have asked "any of you noticed anything about the oven?"

Also hes probably acting somewhat nicer to my gf since shes kinda the one who owns the appartement(in the end, shes the one who decides who gets kicked out), and she also has a big personality . My gf's brother is the type of guys who avoids conflicts and he does a lot of house work (and i'm kinda lazy) so yea he gets frustrated at me more than at gf or gf's brother (however my GF has also been complaining that the roomate is sometimes in really bad moods, and i've also seen him be moody with the gf's brother, however its no where near as crazy as what happened yesterday).

But the point is, i've also sometimes been annoying/a bit assholish to the gf's brother, and he obviously NEVER reacted that way. Roomate's reaction was completly innapropriate.

Today, I've talked about this to my gf, and she wasn't too sure what to do, (she kinda wants him out, but considering the guy is studying at university in this city, and has no where else to live in this city, it would mean if we kick him out, hes gonna be fucked for school, and he has loans and stuff, so yea, she feels guilty kicking him out). Anyways shes still sick and doesn't want to deal with this until shes out of hospital.

Today, the roomate is acting "annoyingly" nice with me. I think he knows i want to kick him out and hes trying to act nice...

On October 09 2011 11:07 RiKD wrote: don't get another roommate either. learn your lesson.

I think you're wrong. Back in the days, i lived alone with my gf, and my gf asked me if i was fine with her brother living with us (thats similar as a roomate kinda). At first i was worried, but it kinda did a good result. First, its much less costly for us, and secondly, he does a lot of house work (dish washing and some cooking etc), and hes not annoying in any ways (mostly stays in his room), and no conflicts ever happens (yes sometimes i've been annoying to him but he doesn't make a big deal out of it).

I think a roomate "can" give a good result, but this time, we should pick very carefully.

brother is different than potential roommate. your g/f probably has 15+ years experience living with him. he's also family. he pretty much sounds like an ideal roommate. however, i would imagine if any party won the lotto tomorrow he'd be out of there as soon as possible.

rando roomate is rolling the dice especially when you consider the pool of potential candidates. you have to ask yourself why this person hasn't found anyone to live with? you are basically trying to get lucky not to get someone terrible.

it comes down to is roommate >>>> working 20 hours a week at $10/hr, working 10 hours a week at $20/hr, eating out/going to bar 1 less time a week, less groceries each week or w/e, etc? the problem is rando roommate is a very volatile variable that is impossible to solve on first impressions. considering how much a roommate can fuck up quality of life and how hard it is to remedy the situation it just doesn't seem like a good proposition.

This is clearly a situation where to Alpha Males are competing to be Man of the house. Do not let him out alpha you, make sure he knows you have the power and then by end of it, he will be tying your shoe laces before you go out. If that doesn't happen, be the alpha make and kick the noob out into the wild.

highcard i don't think thats the case here.... the guy cryed out loud after this happened, and he cryed on the phone today talking to someone from hospital and now he went there -_-

i think he just have psychological issues.

You gave like 10 reasons why you should kick him out but I dont see a single reason why you would NOT throw him out. the $200/m is not an issue. Its going to take at most 2 weeks to find a replacement. So why you do not want to kick him out?

sounds to me like the guy has bipolar disorder. is he taking medicine for it? he should probably go get it checked out...

Didn't read more than 1 or 2 lines but throw him out.

$200 a month? Does he live in the pantry?

well the appartement cost 600$/month and were are 4 people so if we asked for more it would be weird He has his own room, the smallest one.

Wow do you live in the ghetto or something. 600 a month seems extremely good, I pay more than that for my own little apartment. How can his contribution really matter if you and your girlfriend pays like 200 each.

Tell him that he has to leave and give him a month.