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He can't yell at you if he's dead.


...Jus' sayin'.

dont risk the safety of you and ur gf. Nice guys get taken advantage of. Get rid of him

neillys back lol

i was so excited to see a floofy blogpost

then i click and it's all tl;dr =[

get him out of the apartment before he hurts you. he obviously has some anger issues and control issues.

good to see you on the forum floofy

also since you are worried about the GF, why not offer to pay a little bit of that 200 since it is your decision to remove him. im sure even offering something like 50 a month would go a long way towards showing her you care and that the move was about safety, comfort, etc

don't get another roommate either. learn your lesson.

pics of gf

+1 he tries to kill you in your sleep

take all your kitchen knives and his antidepressants. Or just install a camera so the police knows he is the killer lol

Kick him out ASAP.

You should not tolerate this. It's your apartment and he doesn't fit in.

Give him like 26 more chances and then if he's still nuts give him like 8 more chances and then just move out and break up with your girlfriend so you don't have to confront him.

On October 09 2011 11:32 morph1 wrote: pics of gf

I'm pretty sure theres things you ain't telling us floofy, I mean why is that you are the only one who appears concerned about this fucked up guy and neither your gf nor her brother appear to be? and why is he only doing crazy against against you and not doing it vs his other roomates, I think theres more to the story...

locoo i am the kind of person who will sometimes say the things in a funny/annoying way on purpose. Example:

instead of asking "has any of you broke the oven" i could have asked "any of you noticed anything about the oven?"

Also hes probably acting somewhat nicer to my gf since shes kinda the one who owns the appartement(in the end, shes the one who decides who gets kicked out), and she also has a big personality . My gf's brother is the type of guys who avoids conflicts and he does a lot of house work (and i'm kinda lazy) so yea he gets frustrated at me more than at gf or gf's brother (however my GF has also been complaining that the roomate is sometimes in really bad moods, and i've also seen him be moody with the gf's brother, however its no where near as crazy as what happened yesterday).

But the point is, i've also sometimes been annoying/a bit assholish to the gf's brother, and he obviously NEVER reacted that way. Roomate's reaction was completly innapropriate.

Today, I've talked about this to my gf, and she wasn't too sure what to do, (she kinda wants him out, but considering the guy is studying at university in this city, and has no where else to live in this city, it would mean if we kick him out, hes gonna be fucked for school, and he has loans and stuff, so yea, she feels guilty kicking him out). Anyways shes still sick and doesn't want to deal with this until shes out of hospital.

Today, the roomate is acting "annoyingly" nice with me. I think he knows i want to kick him out and hes trying to act nice...

On October 09 2011 11:07 RiKD wrote: don't get another roommate either. learn your lesson.

I think you're wrong. Back in the days, i lived alone with my gf, and my gf asked me if i was fine with her brother living with us (thats similar as a roomate kinda). At first i was worried, but it kinda did a good result. First, its much less costly for us, and secondly, he does a lot of house work (dish washing and some cooking etc), and hes not annoying in any ways (mostly stays in his room), and no conflicts ever happens (yes sometimes i've been annoying to him but he doesn't make a big deal out of it).

I think a roomate "can" give a good result, but this time, we should pick very carefully.

brother is different than potential roommate. your g/f probably has 15+ years experience living with him. he's also family. he pretty much sounds like an ideal roommate. however, i would imagine if any party won the lotto tomorrow he'd be out of there as soon as possible.

rando roomate is rolling the dice especially when you consider the pool of potential candidates. you have to ask yourself why this person hasn't found anyone to live with? you are basically trying to get lucky not to get someone terrible.

it comes down to is roommate >>>> working 20 hours a week at $10/hr, working 10 hours a week at $20/hr, eating out/going to bar 1 less time a week, less groceries each week or w/e, etc? the problem is rando roommate is a very volatile variable that is impossible to solve on first impressions. considering how much a roommate can fuck up quality of life and how hard it is to remedy the situation it just doesn't seem like a good proposition.

This is clearly a situation where to Alpha Males are competing to be Man of the house. Do not let him out alpha you, make sure he knows you have the power and then by end of it, he will be tying your shoe laces before you go out. If that doesn't happen, be the alpha make and kick the noob out into the wild.

highcard i don't think thats the case here.... the guy cryed out loud after this happened, and he cryed on the phone today talking to someone from hospital and now he went there -_-

i think he just have psychological issues.

You gave like 10 reasons why you should kick him out but I dont see a single reason why you would NOT throw him out. the $200/m is not an issue. Its going to take at most 2 weeks to find a replacement. So why you do not want to kick him out?

sounds to me like the guy has bipolar disorder. is he taking medicine for it? he should probably go get it checked out...