Girl advice - Page 2

On December 20 2016 11:32 Spitfiree wrote: Show nested quote + On December 20 2016 06:52 PuertoRican wrote: lmao... Obviously DON'T marry her... TBH, I was expecting her to be better looking than this. To be clear, I don't think she's ugly, but considering you're even thinking of marrying her... I expected something a little better. Anyway, DON'T marry her... Could not reply better than this Also wp spets for saving the blogpost

What the fuck. PuertoRican is an asshole. Who the fuck cares about his expectations? And since when is looks the center of the focus when you're considering marrying someone? It's the least important factor.

Anyway, I agree it's a terrible idea to marry her. There's uncertainty in every single one of your posts Floofy. You don't trust her - you say she could be lying about this and that. Marriage is the last thing an uncertain person should be getting involved in. You'd be making a decision based on fear.

On December 20 2016 16:01 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On December 20 2016 11:32 Spitfiree wrote:   On December 20 2016 06:52 PuertoRican wrote: lmao... Obviously DON'T marry her... TBH, I was expecting her to be better looking than this. To be clear, I don't think she's ugly, but considering you're even thinking of marrying her... I expected something a little better. Anyway, DON'T marry her... Could not reply better than this Also wp spets for saving the blogpost What the fuck. PuertoRican is an asshole. Who the fuck cares about his expectations? And since when is looks the center of the focus when you're considering marrying someone? It's the least important factor. Anyway, I agree it's a terrible idea to marry her. There's uncertainty in every single one of your posts Floofy. You don't trust her - you say she could be lying about this and that. Marriage is the last thing an uncertain person should be getting involved in. You'd be making a decision based on fear.

Of course i'm uncertain. I've known her IRL for 3 weeks, and she's "too good to be true".

Maybe i'm generalizing, but usually women on the internet are on the internet for a reason. There's always something wrong with them. Either fat, or ugly, or bad sex, or shit personality, or wants to wait 3 month before sex, etc.

Tell her to do like baal, jump the border before there is a wall

On December 20 2016 16:07 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On December 20 2016 16:01 Loco wrote:   On December 20 2016 11:32 Spitfiree wrote:   On December 20 2016 06:52 PuertoRican wrote: lmao... Obviously DON'T marry her... TBH, I was expecting her to be better looking than this. To be clear, I don't think she's ugly, but considering you're even thinking of marrying her... I expected something a little better. Anyway, DON'T marry her... Could not reply better than this Also wp spets for saving the blogpost What the fuck. PuertoRican is an asshole. Who the fuck cares about his expectations? And since when is looks the center of the focus when you're considering marrying someone? It's the least important factor. Anyway, I agree it's a terrible idea to marry her. There's uncertainty in every single one of your posts Floofy. You don't trust her - you say she could be lying about this and that. Marriage is the last thing an uncertain person should be getting involved in. You'd be making a decision based on fear. Of course i'm uncertain. I've known her IRL for 3 weeks, and she's "too good to be true". Maybe i'm generalizing, but usually women on the internet are on the internet for a reason. There's always something wrong with them. Either fat, or ugly, or bad sex, or shit personality, or wants to wait 3 month before sex, etc.

dude, everybody is on the internet nowadays

On December 20 2016 16:07 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On December 20 2016 16:01 Loco wrote:   On December 20 2016 11:32 Spitfiree wrote:   On December 20 2016 06:52 PuertoRican wrote: lmao... Obviously DON'T marry her... TBH, I was expecting her to be better looking than this. To be clear, I don't think she's ugly, but considering you're even thinking of marrying her... I expected something a little better. Anyway, DON'T marry her... Could not reply better than this Also wp spets for saving the blogpost What the fuck. PuertoRican is an asshole. Who the fuck cares about his expectations? And since when is looks the center of the focus when you're considering marrying someone? It's the least important factor. Anyway, I agree it's a terrible idea to marry her. There's uncertainty in every single one of your posts Floofy. You don't trust her - you say she could be lying about this and that. Marriage is the last thing an uncertain person should be getting involved in. You'd be making a decision based on fear. Of course i'm uncertain. I've known her IRL for 3 weeks, and she's "too good to be true". Maybe i'm generalizing, but usually women on the internet are on the internet for a reason. There's always something wrong with them. Either fat, or ugly, or bad sex, or shit personality, or wants to wait 3 month before sex, etc.

What makes you single out the women only? The men on those same dating websites, they get a pass?

There's always something wrong with people, whether they're on the net or not. You have to be more specific. I guess you're saying if they're not unattractive, then they're more likely to want to take advantage of you if you meet them on the net. I don't think this specifically relates to the net, but when we're talking about a girl from a third world country... then yea....

Don't marry man. Sex is amazing now. She's giving massages to you now. Things will change after you get married. Ask your dick to think a bit more longterm.

The guy is wondering whether or not to marry a chick he s known for 3 weeks after previously having the most disturbingly funny thread about women in the history of Internet. If you respond in a non asshole kind of way he might actually think it would be good for him to marry her.

I get it pheromones and all... but use your head honestly. And stop posting the pictures of your girlfriend on the internet randomly without her consent, its disrespectful to her and makes you look like a pathetic attention seeker. This is not the first time you've done it.

Dude, 3 weeks? I've been with my previous gf for over 7 years and we split.
Honestly, especially you recently broke up with your girlfriend you won't be thinking straight. Been there, done that.

Simple rule: don't make life changing decisions after suffering from a loss.

On December 20 2016 05:57 Floofy wrote: Her brother is like a really muscular black dude who has tons of success with girls. Many years ago, he seduced some quebec girl who visited his country, and they married..

Her brother, who was raised along her went to Canada and seduced a fool for a citizenship, and now you want to marry the sister who you have been dating for 3 weeks, you cant be this dumb.

Stop thinking with your cock for a minute and you will realize what a fish you are being, help her getting some kind of visa extension if you can, and if you can't, well she is gone, too fucking bad, for fucks sake

Just find a way to keep her around longer without having to commit hard. I don't know the policies, but most likely if she leaves Canada just for a short while and then asks for another 2 or 3 months tourist Visa, she will get it again. You say you work in IT so I am sure you know how to find information.

You need more time and info to make a decision like this. And also don't make it with your dick.

(Can't believe it hasn't been posted yet)

too huge of a decision for number 2. you guys need to find a work around so you can get more time to see if shes really the one

she's obviously not the one lol, he keeps focusing of sex, as if it was the end all be all of relationships

pics? obviously ask married guys. No don't do it under the circumstances you mentioned, it's just stupid. But yeah looks matter, if you really find her super attractive it does help A LOT in keeping you both interested in each other. In my experience I've had really tough times with the wife and there was a time looks was the only thing making the marriage bearable, looks buys you time to get your head straight at least in some extreme situations.

marriage is a human construct, it gets a lot harder dealing with it the smarter and more options people have at their disposal.

Look mate, you're not an idiot but I strongly think number 2 is a bad idea. You're in an early phase of the relationship that can affect your judgement of her and her situation. She is not perfect, you already told us she doesn't swallow. Also, the temptation to lock someone like this down can be high, especially if you perceive them as ticking all boxes but remember she has a large motivation to also be imbalanced here and do anything you ask, which makes her likely to please you more and be more seductive temporarily. Also, you will be more exciting to her as you tick a lot of major boxes (security mainly) but realistically, probably not all. Notably, whether this will last after she's gained a secure footing in the country or not is impossible to say which makes answering this harder (a clear tick in the bad idea column). She couldn't answer you honestly if you asked but I can guarantee emotionally she'll have some shift between where she is now and months after she gained status. However, it's so up in the air with both your judgements impaired: likey too soon for you even though it feels it's not & her motivations to get out of her country and cling to your security. Since she can't answer you truthfully imo, it's up to you to see how this'll play out down the line and direct things that way. That doesn't mean you can influence things to the degree that will make it work, but it's likely if you have the highly developed panther-level game I imagine you have at this point that you could extend it a great deal, maybe making it last a long time. Largely, when you're rushing into a decision as major as this for someone else's gain, you have to harshly consider if they have any motivations to lie and compromise the whole thing. Sadly, she does and it's a motherfucker but the position is bad to develop things further imo. That said, nothing wrong with spending more time with her, ultimately it's your life to take risks with but marriage is such a bad idea unless you're absolutely fucking sure which takes both time and a stable setup, not just if she swallows or not

She's hot..sex is great...let's marry her.

No, that's not how a successful marriage starts. You hardly know this person. You don' really know who she is...

And divorce isn't just signing a couple papers and calling it good. It's terribly expensive and a massive headache.

Don't be just another statistic with a failed marriage.

Aw I missed the pic.

I think first, you have to make sure your judgment isn't impaired due to the honeymoon phase of a new relationship and a recent breakup. If you're clear minded and you still think she's the one, then:

You gotta know what she thinks of you.

How did you two meet? Does she feel the same way about you? Is she doing this for the citizenship? Does she think she's higher/lower/equal value to you? Will the infatuation phase end? If she stops giving you as much attention, stops massages, demands massages and other things, will you feel the same way? If you don't go for this one, what are your options? Children? Family? Future? How old are you? What are your life plans?

Scrolled to second page to find the pic,
no pic

:-(

The solution is simple , if you love her , go live with her in Burkina Faso
Floofy always deliver

Don't marry her.