Floofy need girl advice - Page 2

Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

On September 07 2013 18:05 Mortensen8 wrote: Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

rofl

and 3 ldo , wtf

On September 07 2013 18:05 Mortensen8 wrote: Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

>ugh, she's lonely
>I feel sorry for her
>so I'm not going to hang out with her

And so, the cycle continues. Life moves on, the wind erodes the rock, water rises and falls. The sun will eventually die, and our galaxy will clash into another galaxy. Shhh, only doom now.

On September 07 2013 16:53 tomson wrote: If you're needy you're needy. You can act that you're not, but all you're just covering symptoms of a greater problem. The self always comes through in the end. Only way to stop being needy in this case is fixing the root cause - scarcity with women of that caliber. You have to know deep down that given not that long of a time you can get a girl of the same quality/that you're equally attracted to. If not eventually you're going to fuck up that relationship (sometimes in very subtle ways). And then you will fuck up the next one. And the next one. Till you learn the lesson. Asking which girl you should see and whether you should fuck multiple girls just comes down to your values - you can listen to another persons opinion, but in the end it's your call as it's (more or less) subjective. If you do decide to fuck more than 1 - my advice to you would be to be very careful about what kind of relationship you are projecting in her eyes and hopefully after the 2nd or 3rd hook up (in a non-dramatic way, but serious, not directly after sex and in private) something like - 'I have to tell you something, because I respect you and I need to be honest with you. I really like you and enjoy your company and I want to keep seeing you. But at this point of my life I don't want to be exclusive. I understand if that's not cool for you.You don't have to make a decision about this now, but I want you think about it' Sometimes she will walk away, often she will stay - in which case she probably will still push for a relationship later on, but at least you have set the right frame from the start.

your probably right... here's what i think tell me if it makes sense...

When flirting her on the internet, her pics were ugly, so i was like, just another chick i can get somewhat easily, and it worked well. But when i fucked her, i realized she's like... way better looking than i thought, but also, REALLY good in the bed. I mean her looks are nothing special im sure many of u guys get better looking girls than her, but seriousy her oral sex skills were crazy. So i got kinda over excited about her and from there i think she realized i was serious about my interest in her, so thats where she freaked out....

Btw i got no desire to actually fuck both and no desire to hurt them. Its just that, for some reasons i feel more interested in the first one (which might be normal considering she's the one i fucked, and her insane oral skills, and being a nympho, while the other one i don't even know if she's ready for sex). But i'm not sure i still got a shot with the first one.

On September 07 2013 15:49 Daut wrote: NEVER FUCK A ROOMMATE. dont shit where you eat man.

^ this.

On September 07 2013 18:05 Mortensen8 wrote: Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

for the record i don't think she's deseperate. Yes she's a loner (its crazy, whatever tv series i tell her about she watched it or heard about it), and doesn't go out much, but she's not ugly or anything, and she told me guys hit on her but she's "picky".

However, call me crazy, but its like the first girl's personality is way more attractive. I know us guys are mostly about looks but idk, i think im way more attracked to first one even tho looks wise there isn't a big difference.

Another thing tho, i guess i probably have way more in common with second girl tho...

The girl that learned the games you like is way better for you than the other obv

I vote find non-bleh girls.

take a chill pill with 1st girl. see what happens. you made some extremely poor decisions but i don't think all is lost quite yet. look at it from the perspective that she just wants some bs free fun, adventure and great dick and then deliver on bs free fun/adventure/great dick.

more importantly, there are other non-bleh girls that give great head and are fun and exciting.

in this particular situation if it's only a roomate situation for 3-6 months i think i might just say play ball floofman. otherwise i don't know. part of this may or may not be b/c i would love to see followup floofman blog posts of results.

Btw guys, one thing i noticed is working out seems to have helped me a lot. When my GF broke up with me 4 months ago, i got like super motivated, went to the gym 2-3x a week and eating super clean.

One really funny proof is, i actually sent first girl a message 4 months ago, just after my breakup, and she ignored it. Sent a new one 2 weeks ago, where my profile picture changed (where its obvious i got some muscle) and now she added me on facebook. She justified herself saying back then she didn't want a relationship but i call bullshit.

Even the roomate girl, i've been here for 4 months and she only recently got heavy on the flirting. I guess she could justify it easily by the fact i had a girlfriend for the last 3 months but whatever lol



I now want to get a 6 pack but seems to a bit harder.

Also i know game is more important than this, but it def seems to help, and it also probably indirectly helps the game.

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: I vote find non-bleh girls. take a chill pill with 1st girl. see what happens. you made some extremely poor decisions but i don't think all is lost quite yet. look at it from the perspective that she just wants some bs free fun, adventure and great dick and then deliver on bs free fun/adventure/great dick.

agreed. Wish i could go back in time cuz this should have been easy =/

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: more importantly, there are other non-bleh girls that give great head and are fun and exciting.

About other girls, i think the problem is my game is all based around the internet, but eventually there is a limit to the number of girls in my town that are on dating web sites. I probably need to learn to flirt IRL girls. But not sure best places to meet them, never loved bars and same for my friends.

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: in this particular situation if it's only a roomate situation for 3-6 months i think i might just say play ball floofman. otherwise i don't know. part of this may or may not be b/c i would love to see followup floofman blog posts of results.

its a roomate for 8 months approximatly. i'm also a little bit afraid she could be the type of girl who might want to wait out for the sex, considering she's both a virgin and seems a bit stuck up. Normally i would just go ahead and try, and dump her if she's stuck up but its not as easy with a roomate lol. However i'm usually good at getting girls which are into me to have sex quick, they say i know how to make them confortable.

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: more importantly, there are other non-bleh girls that give great head and are fun and exciting..

for the record, idk how many girls blowed you off, but for me, i had exactly 6 girls suck me off

1 was horribad at it, teeths n stuff, 20/100
1 was bad cuz kept switching hands n mouth was annoying, 25/100
3 were somewhat in the same league... no teeths, good rythm etc. 50/100

but that one... WOW. not only was her lips pretty generous so u felt it much more, but idk i felt her tongue 10x than usual and it was doing all kinds of things... usually sex is better than blowjob, but with her, it was opposite. 90/100

Her only downside is she didn't want to swallow.

pick the girl who gives u better blowjobs

im surprised nobody has asked for pics

u didnt see that bicep?

This doesn't seem particularly fair for the room mate girl!! You fucked the fat + Show Spoiler +

one, so you've got all kinds of shit flowing in your veins because of that oxytocin and shit (not literally). So maybe if you fuck the room mate as well, just to make sure!!

It would be fun if you make like a challenge with 10 competitions, where we stack them up against eachother, and whoever does best wins the prize (you). We could also perhaps make a thread, and have a poll here on lp for what competitions would be most awesome, yay.

Hmm, we also need to help you get hold of a camera, maybe you can borrow one, we want lots of pictures (yay), from all kinds of angles xD

On September 07 2013 19:17 djforever wrote: Show nested quote + On September 07 2013 15:49 Daut wrote: NEVER FUCK A ROOMMATE. dont shit where you eat man. ^ this.

I DISAGREE STRONGLY!! (or I STRONGLY DISAGREE), whatever sounds coolest.

Just make sure your not doing the shitting in the room you eat, voilà or á (I'm not sure, and I'm too lazy to google again, used my googling energy bar on the word fat, and it's still replenishing).

On September 07 2013 19:31 Baalim wrote: The girl that learned the games you like is way better for you than the other obv

What if he likes shitty games, then you're stuck with a girl who plays shitty games (Juacqh). Like the Sims or something, blerk (dealbreaker).

On September 07 2013 20:16 Floofy wrote: Btw guys, one thing i noticed is working out seems to have helped me a lot. When my GF broke up with me 4 months ago, i got like super motivated, went to the gym 2-3x a week and eating super clean. One really funny proof is, i actually sent first girl a message 4 months ago, just after my breakup, and she ignored it. Sent a new one 2 weeks ago, where my profile picture changed (where its obvious i got some muscle) and now she added me on facebook. She justified herself saying back then she didn't want a relationship but i call bullshit. Even the roomate girl, i've been here for 4 months and she only recently got heavy on the flirting. I guess she could justify it easily by the fact i had a girlfriend for the last 3 months but whatever lol I now want to get a 6 pack but seems to a bit harder. Also i know game is more important than this, but it def seems to help, and it also probably indirectly helps the game.

Holy shit, look at those guns!!

Omg, now another picture, where you have the girl sitting on your bicep/shoulder area, I'm sure you're strong enough for that xD (you could like, put a fridge or something on the other side, for equilibrium lol).

omfg I came on my keyboard. Gross.

the "don't fuck your roommate" advice can't be stressed enough, sooner or later you'll almost certainly be sorry you did it and then you won't even have a sanctuary to fall back to
It's like committing to living together with a girl you slightly know , a ton of things can go wrong, if you are ready for "moving out asap" or "cold war era" scenarios then be my guest