Floofy need girl advice - Page 5

Please, don't ever stop posting.

this thread calls for a poll

On September 09 2013 14:38 lebowski wrote: well tbh if she's a virgin it will take some time for her pleasing skills to develop to a great lvl (a bit faster with good guidance) because she'll first have to feel comfortable to really enjoy sex and to loosen up and get creative. But by teaching her everything you'll eventually get everything exactly the way you like it, or close to it anyway; basically what Loco said in that post about this is spot on. But these things aren't like math; don't start such a relationship half hearted and ready to jump back to the first girl according to her mood changes, an emotional shitstorm will surely ensue and you'll be living in the center of the cyclone too. Chemistry is important and there's a million ways things could not work out with the roommie, I say only go for it if you have your head straight about it, if you feel experimental or not sure etc stick with girls that aren't virgins (meaning girls who are prob. less fragile emotionally ) and don't share living space with you

+100 I had a virgin. At first I thought OMG this sucks.... but if she is really into you then she wants to learn... and she learns exactly how you show her . Obviously, you have to show her tha sex is great so don't ever forget about her too. If she sees, that you're pleasing her, she'll please you.
Still though, they're looking for LTR so if u don't, you can hurt her really badly. That's down to your morality.
Don't think you'll have worse sex in the end. When she learns, she'll be fantastic.
The first girl who is "wide" LOL, maybe too many cocks .

On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting.

You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it.

I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship

One funny thing is the girl admitted the appartment owner told her that i seemed like a player (when i first got here i invited like 5 different girls or something to come over in my room, only slept with 3 of them but she didn't know that). Its like being a player and seeming like an asshole is a chick magnet. Most funny thing is yesterday she asked me for a date and i told her no, got something to do. I actually went to date another girl (bleh only got to make out), and today she told me "hey, am i being paranoid i think you canceled our date to go date another girl?" i was like... no? and she was just like, oh ok i'm happy then! But this girl is smart i bet she suspect something... and today she pretty much forced me to hold her hand and asked me "is it going too fast for you?". I jokingly said i usually don't hold hand until 3 months of dating... but yea i guess i gotta calm down with dating other girls. Shit i almost hope the first girl doesn't want me anymore cuz its gonna be a shit situation if she comes back, at this point its pretty tough to reject the roomate.

loving every laugh

On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship

I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me).

But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else.

On September 10 2013 02:12 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote:   On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me). But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else.

Regardless, that's a pretty shitty thing to do.

On September 10 2013 02:12 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote:   On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me). But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else.

it did matter to me, she was still a friend. And exactly, u would still show it so thats why i'm not gonna continue.

Anyways right now i think i'm just going to go out with her. Rather go out with a girl chasing me than one running from me. And no i don't plan on cheating on her or dumping her for no reasons.

Back when i was with my ex i actually rejected 2 pretty decent girls for her.

I like how loco talks shit about Floofy being a misogynistic, then goes around and acts like a douchebag behind Floofy's back for his own entertainment.

And then will keep showing this thread to whomever loco feels should be "protected" from Floofy. Lawl.

the thing is i'm actually probably 10x better to women than most guys. I never cheated on any girlfriends and avoid flirting during relationships. Its more when i'm single that i tend to flirt like a bunch of women at the same time, but the main reason for that is that i know a lot of those flirts won't work so i'm just saving time. ALso if you just concentrate on one women that really do interest you, the women will tend to see that you're interested in her for real, and that turns em off for strange reasons. I am like 100% sure that if i actually didn't give a crap about the first girl and just seen her as another hole, i would still be fucking her. But she saw that i really had interest in her and wanted to be a good guy for her, so yea i got rejected.

i mean whatever, when you put women on some sort of pedestral and really have respect for them, you get rejected all over the place. i don't really blame guys for being assholes to them anymore.

>probably 10x better to women than most guys

^
Thats only cause of his size man

i need cliffs or something here i'm so lost...

too many girls not enough pics.

so you chose the roommate?

loco dats fukd up yo

On September 10 2013 07:54 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 10 2013 02:12 Loco wrote:   On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote:   On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me). But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else. it did matter to me, she was still a friend. And exactly, u would still show it so thats why i'm not gonna continue. Anyways right now i think i'm just going to go out with her. Rather go out with a girl chasing me than one running from me. And no i don't plan on cheating on her or dumping her for no reasons. Back when i was with my ex i actually rejected 2 pretty decent girls for her.

That's a pathetic excuse not to continue your freak show, considering I have no means to contact her or even know who she is. And I mean I have a 0% chance of letting her know, since I don't even know anything about you in the first place, so who are you kidding? Plus, I'm not that interested in showing this to her anyway, if she is dumb enough to want you to be her first, so be it. That's my opinion. I was basically just saying that as a matter of principle, if I had to choose a course of action, I'd prioritize the prevention of harm over your fleeting pleasure, assuming that you would play the girl. But if you can trivialize her like that (see option 3), I also think she'd benefit from knowing it before she gets too emotionally involved. We sometimes can't know people well until we see how they act with people other than ourselves, where their true motives become clear.

On September 10 2013 11:07 Tien wrote: I like how loco talks shit about Floofy being a misogynistic, then goes around and acts like a douchebag behind Floofy's back for his own entertainment. And then will keep showing this thread to whomever loco feels should be "protected" from Floofy. Lawl.

I had to read this post 4 times and I still don't think I understand it (or at least understand how you came to write this shit). I honestly don't even remember what happened back then, it was like 4-5 years ago, but somehow you know enough about it to call me a douchebag now? And even if I did something you qualify as wrong back then, how does that remove anything from the misogynistic comments Floofy made? You made it sound like there's some hypocrisy on my part, wtf? You even had the guts to say I "talked shit" about the misogyny. He called girls "retarded animals" and did a lot of fucked up shit severely disrespecting girls. Also what makes you so sure I did it (if I actually did it) for entertainment? Maybe it was so she could know how much of an asshole he really was (and if you doubt that, go read the thread yourself, please). He says she was a friend, but what kind of friend divulges some deeply personal shit about you for random ppl's entertainment? Or is that suddenly right because it was "just a girl"? Is that your reasoning? For all I know by the way it could have been Fayth's idea, that's one of the few details I remember, I was talking to this girl with him when this happened. But go ahead and keep acting like you know everything.

And as I said in my previous post, (and apparently you know nothing about me and Floofy to say this), I can't possibly do that thing you say I will do. I was stating that I would have no qualms doing it out of principle if it were possible. In reality I don't give a shit about Floofy's life and it can never happen. It does bother me though if he doesn't get seriously involved with a girl like that and just sees her as an opportunity for sexual gratification while keeping his options open. I know it's really cool for some of you guys to sleep with as many girls as possible, but it becomes depraved when in your view it's completely fine to treat a reclusive virgin the same way as that average bar/club/party girl.

On September 10 2013 11:13 Floofy wrote: the thing is i'm actually probably 10x better to women than most guys. I never cheated on any girlfriends and avoid flirting during relationships. Its more when i'm single that i tend to flirt like a bunch of women at the same time, but the main reason for that is that i know a lot of those flirts won't work so i'm just saving time. ALso if you just concentrate on one women that really do interest you, the women will tend to see that you're interested in her for real, and that turns em off for strange reasons. I am like 100% sure that if i actually didn't give a crap about the first girl and just seen her as another hole, i would still be fucking her. But she saw that i really had interest in her and wanted to be a good guy for her, so yea i got rejected. i mean whatever, when you put women on some sort of pedestral and really have respect for them, you get rejected all over the place. i don't really blame guys for being assholes to them anymore.

Not cheating on your girlfriend is a basic standard of human decency. It's not something to be proud of, and certainly not something to use in order to claim that you treat women 10x better than other guys.

I do get your point about interest and I have found the same thing to be true: if you show strong interest in a particular kind of easygoing girl, she will freak out, even if she does have some interest. I think that in order for this to happen though it has to be a superficial relationship in the first place, there is no real bond between you and her, and unless you are a superficial person or a sex addict, you shouldn't be consciously seeking that anyway. With a compatible, non-shallow girl you can show interest (not maniacal interest/lust, actual genuine interest in the person's personality), and it can be reciprocated and something more lasting can happen there. I guess that's just not something you're likely to find on dating websites though, but it's what's actually worth pursuing in my opinion.

Your using her as an example of why it's better to treat women like shit is so fking terribad because you said that this girl you liked is a nymph. It doesn't take a genius to figure out that if she was that easy to get in your bed, and she's a nymph, then she's not likely to want a real relationship with you... she's that kind of easygoing girl that you should be careful not to pressure because she wants to have fun with guys and that's all. You basically got owned by your hormones ("she's the best thing I've ever had omg I need more of it!" ) and that's all, it's no justification to treat all women like trash as if it's likely to benefit you in the grand scheme of things; it'll only benefit you with the kind of girl that will never be more than just a hole, because you won't scare her away. Don't confuse the two (and don't confuse your lust for genuine interest) and you won't have that problem again.

soooooooo....floofy what's been going on man?

#shotsfired