1
 |
Floofy Canada. Oct 08 2011 23:13. Posts 8708 | | |
Sorry guys i know i have not come on here for a while now (since i don't really play poker anymore) but something just happened to me and i'm not sure who to ask advice to and you guys have generally been great advisors so here it is.
As some of you know i've been living with my GF and her brother for some time, and its going well.
However, recently (a few months ago) we decided to take a roommate because my GF isn't very rich and i'm greedy as fuck. It kinda gives her 200$ more a month.
Thing is, this roomate suffers from an anxiety disorder. It happened a few times that we got some conflicts (me and the roomate) because he can get really pissed off really fast for no reasons, but it never went too far since my GF would make sure it don't go too far.
However, right now, my GF suffers from a pneumonia (don't worry, she will be fine) and shes at the hospital. So today, for a really bullshit reason, the roomate got pissed off at me.
(in short, i came back from work, was talking to my gf on the phone, wanted to take a drink so i took one on the table, and he was like NO ITS MINE, so im like, ok fine ill go take another one, and then hes like HEY TAKE YOURS THATS ALREADY ON THE TABLEEEE but i didn't really understand what he said (i was on the phone) and went away and thats when he yelled hard to get that glass"
SO i was kinda pissed he yelled at me for no reasons and told my gf that hes fucked up. Then he became even more mad and yelled hard at me for calling him fucked up. Then i kinda got frustrated and told my gf i wanted us to kick him off the appartement since hes too fucked up.
At that point, my GF, who was tired, didn't really know to do so we just talked about other things and eventually ended the convo (even if she wanted to do something its kinda hard to do from her hospital bed...).
Then, the roomate told me to "go talk quietly about this at the table". So i was like, ok whatever sure. Then he won't let me say a word and says the story his own way. Then eventually, when i explain it my way, he gets REEALLLLLLY pissed off, yells his hardest, then and i call him fucked up again, and that when he shows his arm towards me (like if he was going to beat me up) and yells hard a bunch of things about not being fucked up.
At that point i was just thinking this guy is absolute nutso and ill just try and calm him down and call the police or something (i probably stood a chance in a fight but i really didn't want to risk it, not worth it, seemed much easier to dodge). So hes like "WILL YOU EVER CALL ME FUCKED UP AGAIN, showing his fist". then i'm like no no no.
Once he calms down, i seriously consider calling the police, but i'm not sure if its the right move and i go ask my gf's brother about it. He's just like "whatever, if you do it, make sure he doesn't find out..." (btw i'm kinda mad he didn't do a thing when this happened -_-).
I decide to do nothing for now...
Later on, he comes back to me, apologize, and almost begs me not to kick him out of the appartement.
So now, what should i do?
Of course it would suck a bit that my GF does not get the 200$ a month anymore, but after today, i'm starting to think this dude is seriously fucked up way more than i ever thought (before today i never thought he was THAT fucked up) and its probably not worth the money to keep him in there.
|
|
| james9994: make note dont play against floofy, ;( | |
|
|
1
 |
exalted United States. Oct 08 2011 23:22. Posts 2918 | | |
lol floofy nice read but do you even need to ask LP's opinion here?
get him out of the fucking apt |
|
| exalted from teamliquid :o | |
|
|
1
| |
kick him out
get another roomate
what's the problem?
comon man...you have a brain (i guess)... you can use it sometimes... |
|
|
1
|
Floofy Canada. Oct 08 2011 23:27. Posts 8708 | | |
TBH after i wrote the post i was like "well why do i even ask them answer is obvious" but i posted it anyways lol |
|
| james9994: make note dont play against floofy, ;( | |
|
|
0
 |
NeillyJQ United States. Oct 08 2011 23:50. Posts 8947 | | | |
|
| Just remember you need to be god damn sure about their tendencies. -Artanis11 http://www.pocketfives.com/profiles/neillyaa/ | |
|
|
1
| |
I understand why you'd post it but yeah.... get that guy out of there for sure. I mean talk it over with your gf and her brother, or bring a good friend of yours over and let him know what's going on. Put your friends in another room or w/e so the guy doesn't feel intimidated, then tell the guy he needs to find a new place to live or w/e, give him the minimum amount of time required by law.
Or maybe since he does seem pretty fkn crazy, someone has a better idea of how to get the cops involved and make it so he has to leave immediately.. might be safer/smarter.
this is just IMO and I don't have first hand experience with this, but it seems like a reasonable course of action.. |
|
|
1
 |
Syntax United States. Oct 08 2011 23:59. Posts 4415 | | |
wow. insta life ban imo. people like that will always find ways in bringing unnecessary drama to your lives |
| |
|
|
1
|
Floofy Canada. Oct 09 2011 00:08. Posts 8708 | | |
Seriously in the past other things happened but never went that far. Example:
The oven was strange (doing weird sounds) and my gf asked to go ask the guys if any of them noticed anything.
I go ask them "did any of you break the oven or something?"
The brother just goes "no" and thats it. The roomate goes something like "WHAT, YOU THINK IF I BROKE IT I WOULDN'T HAVE TOLD YOU WHATTTTTT OMGGG ...etc" that time i again got pissed and told my gf that the roomate fucked up (purposely loud enough so he hears it) and he again got pissed off, but that time nothing really happened other than yells (i think he would not go too crazy when the gfs's there).
I think ill talk this out with my gf tommorow but once she finds out he was threatening me i think shell want him booted. |
|
| james9994: make note dont play against floofy, ;( | |
|
|
1
 |
goose58 United States. Oct 09 2011 00:31. Posts 871 | | |
Just be straightforward, firm, and united. It's a shame this guy is mentally ill. |
|
|
1
 |
qwerty67890 New Zealand. Oct 09 2011 00:32. Posts 14026 | | |
You should tie his shoelaces up really tight and throw them onto the dance floor and then shake his hand. |
|
|
1
|
kaisr Canada. Oct 09 2011 01:09. Posts 1058 | | | |
|
| | Last edit: 09/10/2011 01:10 |
|
|
1
|
kaisr Canada. Oct 09 2011 01:09. Posts 1058 | | |
| | On October 08 2011 23:32 byrnesam wrote:
You should tie his shoelaces together really tight and throw his socks onto the dance floor and then shake his hand. |
FYP for real
|
|
|
1
| |
standard answer would be to kick him out but if you really feel like he can change you give him 1 more chance and the next outburst he has or does anything you do not approve of he gets the boot. To be observant though, someone who has this type of mental illness can't change his thoughts without some help. I think he needs a lot of help and you should try helping him find out the root of his sickness. Have you tried reasoning or talking in a civilize way? Give him some bud  usually that solves my problems |
|
| my karma is done, now time to enjoy life, peace is the way karma is a way Jesus is a way | |
|
|
1
|
RiKD  United States. Oct 09 2011 03:02. Posts 8538 | | |
floof, let's not make this the looks or game thread. if you come back in 6 months and this guy is still living w/ you and just set your g/f's cat on fire b/c you ignored him and rolled your eyes at breakfast while spelling out "fuck you fuck up" in your alphabet cereal i don't even know.
be a man and handle the situation. |
|
|
1
|
tutz Brasil. Oct 09 2011 03:21. Posts 2140 | | |
lol I would easly call him fucked up again and beat his ass off once he tries to punch me, and YES life ban for him |
|
|
1
|
dnagardi Hungary. Oct 09 2011 03:45. Posts 1776 | | |
arent you afraid that he might slice your throat at night? |
|
|
1
|
Mariuslol Norway. Oct 09 2011 04:13. Posts 4742 | | |
Yeah, but ur a big black guy Tutz!! You can do shit like that!!
Think it'll be "harder" and more "complicated" the longer you wait, someone said it up there, tell gf and bro, and give him whatever he has left of the month to get out, and get someone else in xD
|
|
|
5
 |
Garfed Malta. Oct 09 2011 04:15. Posts 4818 | | |
Kick him out, how can you even ask about this. |
|
|
1
 |
Expiate Bulgaria. Oct 09 2011 04:30. Posts 236 | | |
You do realize this guy is able to kill you during you sleep, right? Find someone else for $150 and kick him out. |
|
|
1
| |
call him fucked up again and see what happens |
|
|
|
