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LemOn[5thF]   Czech Republic. Jan 16 2019 10:27. Posts 15163


  On January 15 2019 19:21 k4ir0s wrote:
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Why 1 call per week? What's the logic behind that? Because it removes mystery? The phone call was effortless and she loved it. Seems like it builds attraction and chemistry. And it's fun talking to her.


Could you point out any other mistakes I'm making? I assume you're implying that I'm becoming invested too soon, and giving her too much attention even though she didn't give up sex yet.


Obviously now it's different as you're hooking up with single moms you for teh love of god should NEVER EVER COMMIT TO LONG TERM
unless they are very very very special

But when you date and are a monogamist with the "perfect" person deep down and you have this close to infinite amount of time, lifetime literally.
So all you have to do is reach out once per week initially, you're not losing on anything, you have plenty of time to build rapport and get to know each other. And almost always it's WAY WAY better in person to do it anyways
I mean you should be a busy person anyways - if you have a successful life how can you suddenly spend hours of texting and calling and shit on a person you barely met and don't really know? (it does take a while to get to know a person)


Also what this does is give the power to the woman
You keep calling once per week

And eventually she'll figure out when she reaches out first you instantly ask her out sooner...so suddenly it's her idea, she can see you whenever SHE wants to and is ready for you and you just take action.
Just something to be said in the society where women are bombarded by men constantly.
Yet are told to be powerful independent equal people, she gets to be completely feminine yet actually the decider and you get to take the initiative on paper

Most women actually like to wonder about you and chase themselves! You just have to do it initially in the first few weeks because most are
1) blocked by society
2) constantly bombarded by men and propositions

It's the same with asking to be exclusive marriage etc. you just give her space to give you the hints and then decide if you want to take action.


And as a bonus, because most of us guys have emotional intelligence of a fucking rock it just allows you a tool to naturally see her attraction and give her the space to show it to you.

Or that she is a structured person, seriously it drove me fucking crazy when an otherwise amazing girl would stop herself from sending messages, keep having these long drafts she'd never send no matter how many times I pointed out how I dislike that, it was just impossible to communicate in other areas too and is a red flag actually

93% Sure! Last edit: 16/01/2019 10:34

Santafairy   Korea (South). Jan 16 2019 15:02. Posts 2224

It seems to be not very profitable in the long run to play those kind of hands. - Gus Hansen 

k4ir0s   Canada. Jan 17 2019 07:48. Posts 3476

still think of the ex and miss her so. despite having just finished 2hr phone call with this new girl.


I wonder if it's possible to become friends with an ex? It's painful to think that with time she will become a stranger and I'll forget her face. I wanted to text her today, suggesting a friendly outing. Maybe in the future..

I dont know what a dt drop is. Is it a wrestling move? -Oly 

OpWestAcct   United States. Jan 17 2019 15:01. Posts 640


  On January 17 2019 06:48 k4ir0s wrote:
still think of the ex and miss her so. despite having just finished 2hr phone call with this new girl.


I wonder if it's possible to become friends with an ex? It's painful to think that with time she will become a stranger and I'll forget her face. I wanted to text her today, suggesting a friendly outing. Maybe in the future..



No.

Fuck me 

Loco   Canada. Jan 18 2019 14:20. Posts 20963

Your mind will come up with all sorts of rationalizations as to why you should reach out to her. The idea of friendship is one of them right now. It's not actually what you want, but you can do a lot of mental gymnastics to convince yourself (and her) that it is. Stick out no contact for 6 months or however much you need to move on completely and see how you feel then. If there is truly a possibility for friendship, it will still be there.

fuck I should just sell some of my Pokemon cards, if no one stakes that is what I will have to do - lostaccount 

napoleono   Romania. Jan 19 2019 12:49. Posts 771

Updates on Friday night dinner?


k4ir0s2   Canada. Jan 20 2019 19:30. Posts 16

Password recovery ain't working. Thus the new account until I remember my pw.

Date went well. Drove to her place early afternoon. We ate cauliflower pizza and talked, then madeout on her bed like two teenagers. She didn't want to go further. Then we drove to the gym to play volleyball with her acquaintances. Ate at an Italian restaurant-- she doesn't drink so she's a cheap date! Then back to her condo. She has no TV so we madeout more on her bed and teased each other hard with most our clothes off. I suggested I grab a condom from my bag and she seemed disinterested, and told me again that she wants to wait another week.

We fell asleep in each others arms and she woke me up with a barrage of kisses and mounted me in the morning. We used no protection. Seems like that's what she was going for. Stupid of me, I know. I'm reckless. But afterwards I made a comment about not using a condom and she said something like "Well, you're low risk and I likely don't have anything". rofl the fuck? Not so comforting to me. She cooked us protein pancakes in the morning, then walked me to my car.

The no condom thing freaked me out, especially the fact that she was disinterested by sex when I suggested using one, yet continued to tease me afterwards. But aside from that all went great. I was terrible at volleyball for the first half, but dominated the second half. Definitely the healthiest date I'll go on, aside from the unprotected sex, which was average at best because my ADHD meds inhibit my performance. Focus or sex drive? Hmmm. I'll choose sex for now and try to focus without the meds.

I'll be seeing her again Wednesday. Will be sleeping over again. She seems more thrilled about a relationship with me than I am, which is refreshing. I am not getting my hopes up. She's much more affectionate in public and in private than my ex, which I adore. I love the physical affection.


Some possible issues: 1) She talks about the future (just like my ex). Subtly implying I could move into her condo in the future which she lives in half the time. Or me joining her on a vacation here and there. My ex did the same thing at the beginning, so I know better not to fall for these fairy tales and I'm not in it for these things anyways. 2) When we talk she likes to make mention of all the guys who pursue or hit on her, and how her ex wants her back. Her justification is that she values honesty and wants to be transparent, but I don't need to know most of it because it makes me feel irritated. She tells me that she communicates to the guys that she met someone. I'm reminded of Drone's words and how she's a coach and can easily turn out to be the manipulative type, so I'm proceeding with caution. 3) Difference is lifestyles is big. She's pretty wealthy and I'm at very different stage in my life. In theory this shouldn't be an issue for a secure man, but I'm not so secure yet and imagine it will be a challenge in the future. What happens when she wants to travel on pricey vacations? She doesn't wine and dine like my ex, so that's good.


Lots of potential though. And I know I have my own red flags and issues. She has realistic expectations and realizes our age difference may be an issue in the future, so she hopes for at least a 1yr relationship. She's a business coach, and I've been talking of moving to the 9 to 5 world. She tells me that I should start my own business and/or become a coach of some sort like her. She even gave me some good ideas and offered her help if I decide to do it. So she's not only making me feel again, but also making me think of what's possible..


It's only been 1 week. Two dates, a night over and half a dozen hours on the phone. She likes to talk on the phone every night before she sleeps, and I admit, I am enjoying it.

 Last edit: 20/01/2019 21:41

hiems   United States. Jan 20 2019 22:23. Posts 2979

rofl yes plz start a business.

I beat Loco!!! [img]https://i.imgur.com/wkwWj2d.png[/img] 

drone666   Brasil. Jan 20 2019 23:47. Posts 1821

lol

Dont listen to anything I say 

k4ir0s2   Canada. Jan 21 2019 00:21. Posts 16

 Last edit: 22/01/2019 16:11

hiems   United States. Jan 21 2019 01:56. Posts 2979

yes keep telling yourself that. you are a broke retard probably the best chance for you in business/life is to do gay web cam work.

For the record you are barely employable at a normal job and even with that youd take on debt/lose income while training and would take decades to grind out of cheezburger stakes in life. keep "golddigging" your way to the sky lol. btw women are not retarded you arent getting shit from them money wise.

im not going to.comment on the whole "her opinion > yours thing" and the other shit you wrote.about her being some coach because it is clearly retard logic which you use constantly in all aspects of life (not just when replying to me) so not even going to bother.

I beat Loco!!! [img]https://i.imgur.com/wkwWj2d.png[/img] 

k4ir0s2   Canada. Jan 21 2019 02:14. Posts 16


  On January 21 2019 00:56 hiems wrote:
yes keep telling yourself that. you are a broke retard probably the best chance for you in business/life is to do gay web cam work.

For the record you are barely employable at a normal job and even with that youd take on debt/lose income while training and would take decades to grind out of cheezburger stakes in life. keep "golddigging" your way to the sky lol. btw women are not retarded you arent getting shit from them money wise.

im not going to.comment on the whole "her opinion > yours thing" and the other shit you wrote.about her being some coach because it is clearly retard logic which you use constantly in all aspects of life (not just when replying to me) so not even going to bother.




lol. u realize I played high stakes live much of last year and did well? simply lowered stakes to study. Also have college education + year of working for said college in software. moving out of poker has little to do with current profits. Your turn now. I remember you mentioning hating your dull 9 to 5 job and living at your parents all your life, while dreaming of escaping to SE Asia when you're old with the goal of getting laid. Solid plan, enjoy. No wonder you're a miserable cunt spreading your cancer all over the blogs on this site. You're projecting your incel misery onto others.. we're not all as hopeless as you, and most of us pay bills and dont have the luxury of leeching off parents until retirement.

 Last edit: 21/01/2019 02:27

hiems   United States. Jan 21 2019 02:28. Posts 2979


  On January 21 2019 01:14 k4ir0s2 wrote:
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lol. u realize I played high stakes live most of last year and did well? simply lowered stakes to study. Also have college education + year of working for said college in software. moving out of poker has little to do with current profits


your turn now. I remember you mentioning hating your dull 9 to 5 job and living at your parents all your life, while dreaming of escaping to SE Asia when you're old with the goal of getting laid. Solid plan, enjoy. No wonder you're a miserable cunt spreading your cancer all over the blogs on this site.


i never said i lived with my parents my whole life. ive been here a year. probably lived in way nicer places than you lol...you keep making shit up. I never said anything about se asia either. also unlike you i can actually afford this thing called a plane ticket and can take vacations pretty much whenever i want.

your the one who said u were broke lol. would love to see what you mean by "did well" you probably made like 30k lol and spent it all.

I beat Loco!!! [img]https://i.imgur.com/wkwWj2d.png[/img]Last edit: 21/01/2019 02:33

k4ir0s2   Canada. Jan 21 2019 02:32. Posts 16


  On January 21 2019 01:28 hiems wrote:
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lol i never said i lived with my parents my whole life. ive been here a year. probably lived in way nicer places than you lol...you keep making shit up. I never said anything about se asia either you keep making shit up. also unlike you i can actually afford this thing called a plane ticket. youd be surprised how fast those things go.

your the one who said u were broke lol. would love to see what you mean by "did well" you probably made like 30k lol.




you're cancer

 Last edit: 22/01/2019 16:09

hiems   United States. Jan 21 2019 02:37. Posts 2979

lol say what you want about me but id rather be the villain than you who is a forever broke oliver twist orphan boy. in real life mommy warbucks doesnt save you from the gutter you are actually going to have to not be retarded for that to work.

I beat Loco!!! [img]https://i.imgur.com/wkwWj2d.png[/img]Last edit: 21/01/2019 02:42

BlizzY   Slovakia. Jan 21 2019 09:34. Posts 805


  On January 21 2019 01:37 hiems wrote:
lol say what you want about me but id rather be the villain than you who is a forever broke oliver twist orphan boy. in real life mommy warbucks doesnt save you from the gutter you are actually going to have to not be retarded for that to work.



Just stop posting pls. You are in a blog of a person you proclaim you don't care about, using 'retard' like an insult in 2019, writing lol in half of sentences. It's embarrasing and no one cares about your contribution here.


hiems   United States. Jan 21 2019 12:55. Posts 2979


  On January 21 2019 08:34 BlizzY wrote:
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Just stop posting pls. You are in a blog of a person you proclaim you don't care about, using 'retard' like an insult in 2019, writing lol in half of sentences. It's embarrasing and no one cares about your contribution here.


What makes you think im trying to contribute / be popular. Everyone has the right to defend themselves.

K4ir0s is the one who wrote shit in my blog in the first place. He also spoke publicly on very personal stuff that was between me and him in private conversation just so he could feel better about himself / turn people against me. I have the right to say what i want.

Last thing I'll say is im tired of not being able to talk about some of the issues I feel exist for Asian/Asian-American people. Only thing stupid liberals talk about are issues facing black people/muslims/hispanics etc when in actuality Asian/Indian people are the true minority. Yet when I go on here talking about my struggles with online dating I get ostracized. POF data suggests something crazy like <1% match rate for asian males. But apparently its my fault that i cant get dates on tinder. I really dont understand what is so wrong about talking about this. In fact, Id argue why are you all so committed to pretending like this isnt some profound statement about our society?

I beat Loco!!! [img]https://i.imgur.com/wkwWj2d.png[/img]Last edit: 21/01/2019 14:09

hiems   United States. Jan 21 2019 14:10. Posts 2979

I beat Loco!!! [img]https://i.imgur.com/wkwWj2d.png[/img]Last edit: 21/01/2019 14:18

k4ir0s2   Canada. Jan 21 2019 15:12. Posts 16

https://www.liquidpoker.net/blog/viewblog.php?id=1159743
https://www.liquidpoker.net/poker-forum/1159418/all/what_should_I_do_.html

only times I posted in this his blog, which were non offensive comments. Simply challenged the idea that his mindset is holding him back, and not bc he's short and asian. After that he stalks all my blogs and spreads cancerous replies.

the guy asked for my Skype ID a few months ago for what I thought a friendly convo, then proceeded to ask me questions like "How's your romantic and social life?" "Do you make much money?" "Do you have debt?". Guess he was fishing for personal attacks, hence calling me an orphan.

 Last edit: 22/01/2019 16:13

hiems   United States. Jan 21 2019 17:35. Posts 2979


  On January 21 2019 14:12 k4ir0s2 wrote:
https://www.liquidpoker.net/blog/viewblog.php?id=1159743
https://www.liquidpoker.net/poker-forum/1159418/all/what_should_I_do_.html

only times I posted in this his blog, which were non offensive comments. Simply challenged the idea that his mindset is holding him back, and not bc he's short and asian. After that he stalks all my blogs and spreads cancerous replies.

the guy asked for my Skype ID a few months ago for what I thought a friendly convo, then proceeded to ask me questions like "How's your romantic and social life?" "Do you make much money?" "Do you have debt?". Guess he was fishing for personal attacks, hence calling me an orphan. I didn't even write about growing up in fostercare here on LP. The guy must have stalked my Quora account which I once linked to on this site, since it's the only place I wrote about it. BTW I love being called an orphan. It only reminds me of all that I have overcome.



dude you posted several times on this site about something along the lines of an orphanage and being deprived of companionship during the holidays because of this. stop making shit up about me. its funny you say you posted only non offensive comments on my blog, when just a few comments ago you said you never even posted on there and never even read my blog. i dont even know how to explain your idiotic logic. your the one who asked me if i had student loan debt out of nowhere because you were jealous that i said i had savings and a job.

im not sure what exactly you have "overcome." you are a needy, busto, loser going down on 40 year old women for them to show you a glimpse of the good life. exactly what is it that you have accomplished?

the reason i say "cancerous replies" to you because your posts are all extremely ignorant and just hard to read. you act like you are an expert with women and then tell me that being asian isnt a disadvantage and tell me "plenty of ugly people get laid" and how "im not fucking" and that "i have to lower my standards". you'd have to pay me alot of money to get dating advice from you who has no idea what he is doing. at least drone666 is not a retarded busto like you and actually despite being a good looking dude didnt waste like 10+ years of his life.

I beat Loco!!! [img]https://i.imgur.com/wkwWj2d.png[/img] 

 
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