GirlFriend addicted to COD2 - Page 2

On April 18 2013 17:05 LemOn[5thF] wrote: Hey that's like how I was before You should either join her or try to do other activities together, her life isn't satisfying enough at the moment to avoid the addiction, which rly is just an escape. I've been there many times, hell I'm at that stage right now :D Work sucks and is boring, I got hooked on dota again skipping sleep etc. Decide if it's worth working hard on it or just change.

first thanks for not talking to me in a condescending way. Its a bit annoying LP's habit of always having to make people with problems look like loosers or something.

Even thought it is TRUE i didn't take care of the relationship enough i think its a bit too late by now. If i ever get back with her again ill do that fo sure.

Tbh it does sound like you are the chick here, I was exactly as she is with my gf of 4 years before because work wasn't working out, we didn't do fun stuff as much and didn't have much in common in terms of activities

What I would have liked if she actually supported me with poker/dota even tho she hated it, and took part of it with me. Instead she started watching shows being distant and shit and we grew apart and eventually the relationship ended. Basically started behaving like you :D
I can't see why not just play with her even though you don't like it, start a damn clan together or something instead of resenting her for it!

Everyone is in a bad rut sometimes, if it's both of you one will have to make the proper steps if it's worth saving that is.

P.S. you as a chick I mean me as a boyfriend and my ex as yourself, I think guys have a lot higher tendency to escape through online games your gf is doing pretty 100% of what I was doing, I was just down in life and needed a confidence boost. Play with her, support her no matter how ridiculous she acts for a while but if you don't rly love her and it would be too hard for you just get out.

On April 18 2013 17:18 LemOn[5thF] wrote: Tbh it does sound like you are the chick here, I was exactly as she is with my gf of 4 years before because work wasn't working out, we didn't do fun stuff as much and didn't have much in common in terms of activities What I would have liked if she actually supported me with poker/dota even tho she hated it, and took part of it with me. Instead she started watching shows being distant and shit and we grew apart and eventually the relationship ended. Basically started behaving like you :D I can't see why not just play with her even though you don't like it, start a damn clan together or something instead of resenting her for it!

Obviously if i showed her cod2, i don't hate cod2. But after a few games i'm bored. Cod2's zombie mod gets boring fast to me. And the worst is she's not actually playing with me, she talks more with the english guys even if i play with her. And she always talks about how those guys are better than me blalbla.

You should never ever be jealous at all, cause it's just a sign of your own weekness and that you do not love yourself and MUST HAVE her to be happy. This is never good. If you really love her, I advice you to go fuck 10 girls in the next 3 months and call her afterwards. She will probably love you again...

On April 18 2013 17:24 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On April 18 2013 17:18 LemOn[5thF] wrote: Tbh it does sound like you are the chick here, I was exactly as she is with my gf of 4 years before because work wasn't working out, we didn't do fun stuff as much and didn't have much in common in terms of activities What I would have liked if she actually supported me with poker/dota even tho she hated it, and took part of it with me. Instead she started watching shows being distant and shit and we grew apart and eventually the relationship ended. Basically started behaving like you :D I can't see why not just play with her even though you don't like it, start a damn clan together or something instead of resenting her for it! Obviously if i showed her cod2, i don't hate cod2. But after a few games i'm bored. Cod2's zombie mod gets boring fast to me. And the worst is she's not actually playing with me, she talks more with the english guys even if i play with her. And she always talks about how those guys are better than me blalbla.

Yeah well, seems like a petty issue really, no big deal play a boring game or support her.

There prolly are other issues that triggered this, but to resolve them you first need to get on her side make her feel like you fully accept her no matter what and then talk about it.

If you want some cheesy relationship advice:
http://isohunt.com/torrent_details/26...s+to+stay+in+love+forever?tab=summary


Step 1 he mentions is commitment tho, if aren't committed and willing to put the work in then fuck it

On April 18 2013 17:27 SolarM wrote: You should never ever be jealous at all, cause it's just a sign of your own weekness and that you do not love yourself and MUST HAVE her to be happy. This is never good. If you really love her, I advice you to go fuck 10 girls in the next 3 months and call her afterwards. She will probably love you again...

isn't 3 months a bit long thought? by then she might have someone else.

In all seriousness I don't know what I would do in this situation.

Haven't read whole thread, but this reminds me of that episode in Big Bang Theory, were Penny gets addicted to WoW like game. Pretty relevant lol.

I'm tryin to picture the whole thing with dialogs in french canadian accent

The point is that you've tried communicating with her and you've accessed if your reaction to your relationship was logical and justified.

In this case, as you tell it, you made the steps in trying to repair the situation and it's not working. That's the tell-point of when to end the relationship unless things get better in the future (though its bad to plan right now with that expectation.)

Let's look at the facts,

1. She's grown distant with you playing CoD.

2. She's making online guy friends that she's obviously interested in.

3. She makes no effort to include you in this game.

4. You've talked about how playing the game and talking to the guys bothers you since you believe its more than just normal online banter.

Step 4 is important as you have to figure out if your complaint is justified according to your relationship. Seeing as how you've been in a relationship for four years, there probably is an understanding that exclusion, growing distant and not interacting with each other was agreed (invisibly) upon and that having cyber sex in the washroom with another guy is definitely not okay.

On these premises, I think you have every right to be jealous and confront her that her actions are not conducive to what you guys had in mind for a relationship.

So, you can:

1. Break up realizing that things had changed and the relationship that you wanted was no longer mutual.

2. Compromise in a way to make you both happy (unlikely).

Good luck man

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sounds like she doesn't like you too much

or have any respect for you what so ever

gg

sucks, but move on

The only solution is to kick start the looks or game thread.

Tensai pretty much nailed it for how I feel as well.

I would tell her GG NO RE

She probably gets a ton of attention in the game if she speaks on a mic since 95%+ of plaeyers are guys, whenever a girl speaks everyone goes nuts. Most girls dream about getting that much attention. You need to remind her this is the internet and everyone is retarded,

Also thought of something else

record this on a cam or something

you walk into the room while she is playing - turn it off
and ask her "LOOKS**at this point there should be a double thumb gesture to yourself** OR GAME*a weak point over at the console*!?!?!?"

and then if she says game - then go "GG NO RE BITCH!" and walk out forever
or if she says looks then it obv turns into an amateur porn.

either way it's a win.

While she's playing offer to let her fuck you in the ass with a strap-on. It should at least get her attention.

she doesn't care about it anymore. Just walk out and move on.

'nothing a well-crafted marriage proposal can't fix if you ask me

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