GirlFriend addicted to COD2

You sound like the girl in the relationship.

i guess, but thats not really helping

Is this a troll post?

She's not hooked on the game, she's simply using the game as a vice to occupy her free time that was otherwise awkward when spent with you. My guess is the relationship has run its course, and whether she plays the game or not she'll probably not be interested in hanging out with you. If you move out, I wouldnt even bother calling her in a month to see if you can rekindle. Call her if you actually just want to talk/hang out, and if she's game then whatever happens happens. You might go out to lunch, you might fuck, just see where it goes. If she rejects the idea and blows you off, then it's totally over and I'd never call her again. If you continue to date while separated, well then maybe you move back in again one day, maybe not. She'll miss the dick eventually, so the question is does she want yours or not. When you find out she's fucked somebody else, it's over.

If your post is accurate, this girl is treating you like shit. Get out of this relationship ASAP, it's not healthy. But you knew I was going to say that..

On April 18 2013 16:27 NewbSaibot wrote: She's not hooked on the game, she's simply using the game as a vice to occupy her free time that was otherwise awkward when spent with you. My guess is the relationship has run its course, and whether she plays the game or not she'll probably not be interested in hanging out with you. If you move out, I wouldnt even bother calling her in a month to see if you can rekindle. Call her if you actually just want to talk/hang out, and if she's game then whatever happens happens. You might go out to lunch, you might fuck, just see where it goes. If she rejects the idea and blows you off, then it's totally over and I'd never call her again. If you continue to date while separated, well then maybe you move back in again one day, maybe not. She'll miss the dick eventually, so the question is does she want yours or not. When you find out she's fucked somebody else, it's over.

Hmmm i am sure your post is partly right, but trust me she IS hooked to that game. Maybe the guys she talk to is main reason thought. But trust me, even when her friends come over she basically ignore them to play that game. She also used to do a lot of "zumba" to loose her weight, but she stopped it since she started that game. She also used to be pretty disciplined for bed times... but now not at all.

Sounds like every gamer out there.

We need to see some pics before we can assess the situation.

Well there's more to that first reaction argument than you're telling us because she wouldn't change her 4 year relationship status just because you told her that playing COD too much makes no sense.

Haven't you ever been addicted to a game for 3 weeks?

If it's really bothering you that much then I would just honestly, calmly, and openly tell her what you're thinking, and that it bothers you and you want her to spend more time with you or whatever it is that's bothering you. If she doesn't change, then you have to decide whether or not you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't listen to you or care about how you feel.

The most important thing is to not play silly games with her, but instead be open and direct.

4 years is a long time but there are zillions of other girls out there. Honestly it sounds like this is more like an effect of other problems and not the cause. It sounds like this relationship has run its course and has turned to shit for whatever reason and things like this are going to start happening because you guys are bitter with each other and don't really like or respect each other that much anymore. You might still love each other but might be happier finding someone else.

Good luck!

On April 18 2013 16:41 PuertoRican wrote: We need to see some pics before we can assess the situation.

don't see how its revelant

On April 18 2013 16:47 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On April 18 2013 16:41 PuertoRican wrote: We need to see some pics before we can assess the situation. don't see how its revelant

are you serious about saving this relationship or not?

On April 18 2013 16:47 SleepyHead wrote: Well there's more to that first reaction argument than you're telling us because she wouldn't change her 4 year relationship status just because you told her that playing COD too much makes no sense. Haven't you ever been addicted to a game for 3 weeks? If it's really bothering you that much then I would just honestly, calmly, and openly tell her what you're thinking, and that it bothers you and you want her to spend more time with you or whatever it is that's bothering you. If she doesn't change, then you have to decide whether or not you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't listen to you or care about how you feel. The most important thing is to not play silly games with her, but instead be open and direct. 4 years is a long time but there are zillions of other girls out there. Honestly it sounds like this is more like an effect of other problems and not the cause. It sounds like this relationship has run its course and has turned to shit for whatever reason and things like this are going to start happening because you guys are bitter with each other and don't really like or respect each other that much anymore. You might still love each other but might be happier finding someone else. Good luck!

ok i might have skipped some parts of the story.....

Basically i got kind of jealous of how she was talking with guys much hotter than me 24/7. And at one point she was talking with one in the bathroom and i kinda thought it was cyber or something, the way she talked sounded like it. I knocked at the door and confronted her. I think its a bit after that she decided to change relationship status and go away for the weekend.

Btw an important note is, there is literally no way she will ever met these guys. They're mostly americans or canadians and she lives in quebec.

On April 18 2013 16:50 bigredhoss wrote: Show nested quote + On April 18 2013 16:47 Floofy wrote:   On April 18 2013 16:41 PuertoRican wrote: We need to see some pics before we can assess the situation. don't see how its revelant are you serious about saving this relationship or not?

i guess so but i don't see how pictures are revelant. And what picture do you even need? me? the gf? the guys?

Btw an important note is, there is literally no way she will ever met these guys. They're mostly americans or canadians and she lives in quebec.

impossible to meet canadiens in quebec imo

On April 18 2013 16:54 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On April 18 2013 16:50 bigredhoss wrote:   On April 18 2013 16:47 Floofy wrote:   On April 18 2013 16:41 PuertoRican wrote: We need to see some pics before we can assess the situation. don't see how its revelant are you serious about saving this relationship or not? i guess so but i don't see how pictures are revelant. And what picture do you even need? me? the gf? the guys?

On April 18 2013 16:51 Floofy wrote: Btw an important note is, there is literally no way she will ever met these guys.

It's not important at all. You're just being insecure and jealous, and causing unnecessary stress on the relationship.

On April 18 2013 16:58 SleepyHead wrote: Show nested quote + On April 18 2013 16:51 Floofy wrote: Btw an important note is, there is literally no way she will ever met these guys. It's not important at all. You're just being insecure and jealous, and causing unnecessary stress on the relationship.

tbh i think your right, if i could go back i wouldn't act like a jealous guy. I stopped it tho.

Hey that's like how I was before

You should either join her or try to do other activities together, her life isn't satisfying enough at the moment to avoid the addiction, which rly is just an escape. I've been there many times, hell I'm at that stage right now :D Work sucks and is boring, I got hooked on dota again skipping sleep etc.

Decide if it's worth working hard on it or just change.