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Joeingram1   United States. Mar 04 2010 01:37. Posts 943
This might be a record for me, 2 blogs in the same day


As I wrote about in my last blog my current roomate is moving out at the end of our lease in April and I am looking for a person to live with out here. I have talked to a few poker people through what I posted on 2+2 and have a few people seriously interested that seem like cool people. The wildcard in this whole process is that their is a girl from back home in Chicago/Indiana that I've known for a long time/has visited me out here before that really wants to gtfo of there and move out here. Everyone I have even mentioned this idea to has said no way it will work.

What I want to try to figure out here is what is my exact potential EV I lose/gain in having her move in. Lets set the pro's first. She said she will cook/clean/laundry/as much sex as I want. Now thinking about this aspect alone overall it is pretty big. First, I fucking hate cleaning and rarely do it. To have someone around on a consistent basis making sure everything is good, laundry is washed would probably make me feel alot better about myself and my surrondings. As for the cooking aspect, I think this would be absolutely tremendous. Would help me eat healthier/help body get in better shape, save money on fast food all the time, would enjoy the meals more, not have to worry about leaving the apartment. The sexual aspect obviously speaks for itself. I will say she is a pretty girl, nice body, good in bed and a pretty pleasent person to have around. Plus I feel like I will be making a big difference in her life as life back in Indiana pretty much sucks for her right now.



Now lets weigh some con's. First, we wouldn't exactly be "dating" but we kinda would be in a way. Therefore I'm sure bringing other girls home would be frowned upon from her vantage point. Also the overall bills here are around 1200-1300 total each a month. She has her own bills of around 600 a month so assuming she got some sort of waitress/bar job out here making 1k-1.5k a month, she would really only be able to pay 500-600 towards bills therefore sticking me with about 1800-1900 just to live here. I mean that is pretty fucking ridiculous lol. Also there is no guarantee that she can get a job making that sort of money right away so the first month or two I could end up paying more. In addition I have to factor in the possiblity of me just getting sick of seeing her as well which has been known to happen in the past.


Therefore weighing these options I need to come up with a forumla to figure out if I should go the poker player route where I can still meet as many women as I want, hire maid/find a girl to cook for me. Or have her move in and live in a clean/cooking environment. I figure the cleaning alone can probably come to about $200/month, cooking $300-400/month, sex $500 month (this is assuming in a normal dating relationship I would end up spending the equivalent on taking women on dates plus the time taken up texting/driving/bs stuff). Now we factor in the negatives, I end up paying extra $600-700/month, $200-300 month with no other women.


So if I actually use this equation to figure things out it looks as if I about breakeven overall on the situation so basically I just need to decide what I actually desire for the next few months of my life. Getting better at poker while living with someone to play or having food/ a clean place and sex anytime.............

decisions, decisions !!!!!!!!!


Please if I messed up on this formula somewhere or am missing some key factors let me know. Feedback much appreciated and will be shown in the form of Pictures I have recieved through text messages on my next blog



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whamm!   Albania. Mar 04 2010 01:49. Posts 11625

bros before hoes imo


KingSpades   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:08. Posts 119

I'm just impressed you spelled "DECISIONS" wrong twice in a row in all caps.

But seriously... from my experience, living with girls will make you want to commit suicide after a while


KeanuReaver   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:11. Posts 2022

she'll cut into your poker time like crazy
i've been living with my gf for a while now and despite her really supporting me with poker she still cuts into poker time worse than all other factors by far.
of course she'll get rid of a ton of stress too, just make sure you consider that.

and the endurance required for MMA, which has actions like punching and kicking bone and muscle with 1000-2500 PSI. - Taco 

KeanuReaver   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:11. Posts 2022


  On March 04 2010 01:08 KingSpades wrote:
I'm just impressed you spelled "DECISIONS" wrong twice in a row in all caps.

But seriously... from my experience, living with girls will make you want to commit suicide after a while



yo pm me

and the endurance required for MMA, which has actions like punching and kicking bone and muscle with 1000-2500 PSI. - Taco 

luddite   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:13. Posts 398

hahaha, this blog is ridiculous. I can't believe you're actually trying to calculate this, and put an exact number on the EV you get from sex.

In all honestly you should probably try living with her for a while WITHOUT having sex with her, or dating her. Just be normal roomates, and see how you like it. Then if you like living with her you can move towards having that kind of relationship with her. Having someone move across the country to live with you just seems like a huge drama bomb waiting to happen, if you rush things.


Exhilarate   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:22. Posts 5453

i'd go with that girl, getting some pussy after bad beats is +ev


R_I   New Zealand. Mar 04 2010 02:37. Posts 682

id say a key factor you're missing is that what women say is mostly worthless. it's what they do or in this case don't do that matters.

can you really trust her to keep her promise? would you be ready to throw her out or something if she just slacks off if she thinks she can get away with it?


whamm!   Albania. Mar 04 2010 02:39. Posts 11625

gettting a bj while grinding is def -EV
seriously, a woman lving with you is an automatic doomswitch
its best if u can get laid when u want, where you want(non roomate fuckbuddy or something) and not have pussy walking around all day bitching about how bad her day was

 Last edit: 04/03/2010 02:42

RICHI8   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:45. Posts 1341


  On March 04 2010 00:37 Joeingram1 wrote:
This might be a record for me, 2 blogs in the same day


As I wrote about in my last blog my current roomate is moving out at the end of our lease in April and I am looking for a person to live with out here. I have talked to a few poker people through what I posted on 2+2 and have a few people seriously interested that seem like cool people. The wildcard in this whole process is that their is a girl from back home in Chicago/Indiana that I've known for a long time/has visited me out here before that really wants to gtfo of there and move out here. Everyone I have even mentioned this idea to has said no way it will work.

What I want to try to figure out here is what is my exact potential EV I lose/gain in having her move in. Lets set the pro's first. She said she will cook/clean/laundry/as much sex as I want.



I quit reading right there. This is an obvious indicator that you shouldn't live together. You do not have sex with room mates. If you want to be a good person and give her an opportunity to get out of there do it genuinely. No strings attached.


LikeASet   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:46. Posts 2113


  On March 04 2010 00:49 whamm! wrote:
bros before hoes imo



fuck that...

Anyways girls aren't auto clean. I used to live with a couple girls back in my fresh/soph years in college and they were dirty and lazy. One girl was a spoiled ho bitch, and when I went to vacume under the living room couches, found a bloody ass panty wtf.
I'd say let her move in though. Bj's/Hj's ftw. Cooking/cleaning aspect is irrelevant because everyone should learn how to cook sooner or later and cleaning is easy when you don't have dirty habbits in the first place.


Zep   United States. Mar 04 2010 02:57. Posts 2292

I'd say 1 in 1000 women would be worth living with. If she fits that category, then put your chips in the middle. If she's not, it's not even close.

NeillyJQ: I really wanted to prove to myself I could beat NL200, I did over a small sample, and believe Ill be crushing there in the future. 

GoTuNk   Chile. Mar 04 2010 03:03. Posts 2860

can't believe no one has asked for pictures yet


Misjka   Netherlands. Mar 04 2010 03:08. Posts 266


  On March 04 2010 01:11 KeanuReaver wrote:
she'll cut into your poker time like crazy
i've been living with my gf for a while now and despite her really supporting me with poker she still cuts into poker time worse than all other factors by far



I sooooo +1 this.

My gf also really supports my poker and she can even stand badbeattalking and me being tilted. But the amount of pokertime you lose just by hanging around together and doing boyfriend/girlfriend stuff is ridiculous


thumbz555   United States. Mar 04 2010 03:10. Posts 3281


  On March 04 2010 02:03 GoTuNk wrote:
can't believe no one has asked for pictures yet


+1
EV impossible to calculate without a picture, still difficult if it isn't nude.
Get on that mmkay.

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spets1   Australia. Mar 04 2010 03:44. Posts 2179

imhimho +++ev to get a poker player to live with that you can learn from each other.

and having se with roommates ive never heard any1 ending up good doing that.

the stress the girls can bring to ur life is just outweighting evrything else imho.

hola 

LilDeano89   Australia. Mar 04 2010 04:27. Posts 576

+1 for pics imo

Money aint a thang 

LemOn[5thF]   Czech Republic. Mar 04 2010 04:36. Posts 15163

But.... How about LOVE guys?

Seriously though
For me GF is +++EV.
I'd be going to clubs, being sad and alone in my poker cave.

Now I have someone who helps me to take my mind off poker and give me a reality check. The dinner and lunchboxes are awesome, as is clean flat (I am extremely messy when I live alone), and my GF is my best friend by far
Its pretty great when you have them 6 hour sessions to go for a hug on your scheduled breaks or tourney breaks.

And the stress thing... Ye I agree, but hey... I am a poker player for Christ's sakes, it's my number one priority to handle stress and emotion, and having a temperamental GF is an AWESOME PRACTICE OPPORTUNITY. Too awesome at times, but that's my fail and mine alone.

93% Sure!  

LemOn[5thF]   Czech Republic. Mar 04 2010 04:40. Posts 15163

Although I must say that I am probably a really horrible boyfriend... We rarely go out, just within 1km radius from our flat and like once per week, I never cook, rarely shop, clean or buy her stuff just for the sake of it. On top of that I am fat, work most day and play poker when I come from work or browse LP.

God I am a lucky bastard -.-

93% Sure! Last edit: 04/03/2010 04:41

RaiNKhAN    United States. Mar 04 2010 04:46. Posts 4080

shes probably gonna try to fool around with your friends so she can make moves out there, set territory, all that girl bullshit and that alone is like tomahawk cruise missle tilt. just be careful bro

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