No Fat Chicks?

5th or last option, otherwise your cheating yourself sir !!

I don't think you're being shallow. If you're just not into her physical side, it will have effect on your relationship in the long run - it will weigh her good qualities down and make you irritated.

Well if you don't want anything really serious that's fine I guess - but if you'd plan for the longterm, I would say make her lose weight or ditch her. Maybe that's selfish, but I don't see the problem. If you already have concerns it just won't work this way.

pic?

rofl

more cushin' for the pushin'

this post is useless without pics

On December 14 2009 07:04 tiagoxdd wrote: this post is useless without pics

On December 14 2009 07:54 RaiZ wrote: Show nested quote + On December 14 2009 07:04 tiagoxdd wrote: this post is useless without pics

Keep seeing her, but start bringing an harpoon with you when your going out with her, that should get the message across.

Seriously, nothing wrong with being with a fat, what you really need to know is why do you like her ? And more important, it's easier to make them fit than the other way...
Really this isn't a big issue.

On December 14 2009 08:39 RaiZ wrote: Really this isn't a big issue.

Lol. But it is a large one.

On December 14 2009 08:29 EvilSky wrote: Keep seeing her, but start bringing an harpoon with you when your going out with her, that should get the message across.

I vote for this. Winner.

On December 14 2009 08:29 EvilSky wrote: Keep seeing her, but start bringing an harpoon with you when your going out with her, that should get the message across.

Haha and randomly blur out FUCK YOU WAYRRUUUU

lol @ all the comments and poll options

Definitely keep seeing her. If she ends up being right for you then a "tad porky" will disappear real fast. Also a tad porky can be lost at the gym pretty easily so it's a long term fixable solution. It's harder to find a person who you can really connect with than it is to find a person with a good body, and the real connection is so much more important while the good body is something that can be achieved later.

Still unclear, are we talking like 5'3 150lb porky or 5'5 200lbs+ porky?

yeah totally depends...

one of my ex's gained a bit of weight but stayed sexy to me due to personality/history 'n such so I've learned to let things like that slide justttttt a touch more than before

definitely get her banned from mcD that shit is nasty

On December 14 2009 08:29 EvilSky wrote: Keep seeing her, but start bringing an harpoon with you when your going out with her, that should get the message across.

Thanks, I'll give that a shot. I actually do like her but... well... she's fat... like wears loose dresses and shit. It's not right I tell ya.

tell her about "south beach" diet

well chances are you are probably not that attractive to her too, and shes settling, so why dont you? Every girl you've ever dated has "settled" for you, instead of waiting for one of those Twilight looking boys.

Guys are really pathetic sometimes. Unless shes so big that she like cant fit into cars or through doorways, its not really an issue. You said she was "very cute" right? Why does an extra inch or two on the waist matter then?

You are shallow, and be thankful girls aren't as shallow as you or you would never get a date.

Of course, my actual advice on the matter; Dont date her, dont string her along when you will never accept her for how she is, its not fair to her. She deserves better.