My apartment is a mess again, so I spent 2 hours cleaning it up. Like the common stuff, vacuming, kitchen, bathroom, clothes n stuff. And now all that remains is cleaning up my sticky notes, but I can't force myself to throw them away, so doing that trick I do from time to time. I go through them, and I toss all the stupid ones, and I put the cool ones over here in my blog.
Enjoy xD
Cool / Clever thingys
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- It's not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.
- Timing, right when something positive happens is the time when it's most awesome to say it, affirm it, compliment it. Makes you link positive patterns to when it's occuring.
And when we do poorly, take it up afterwards, then go through idea, tips and tricks to fix.
- Reward yourself every day, lots of short term goals. Reward yourself each time you take action instead of worrying.
Books I should read
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The Greatest Show on Earth by Richard Dawkins
Hyperspace by Michio Kaku
Death by Black Hole by Neil DeGrasse Tyson
Napoleon's Buttons by Penny Le Couteur and Jay Burreson
Gotye - somebody that I used to know
Jared Tendler
The Mental Game Of Poker
The primal blueprint
Fantastic Voyage
Transcend
How to best remember what you read
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1. Read with a purpose.
2. Skim first.
3. Get the reading mechanics right.
4. Be judicious in highlighting and note taking.
5. Think in pictures.
6. Rehearse as you go along.
7. Stay within your attention span and work to increase that span.
8. Rehearse again soon.
Tactics people who try and control, rule over others use
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- Makes them feel invisible
- Ridicule
- Runs over
- Holds back information with the intention of coming of more brilliant, don't want to teach other when they have the source to something.
Quotes / Inspirational
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"what you link pain to and what you link pleasure to shapes your destinty."
"A man who suffers before it is necessary, suffers more than is necessary."
"There can be no transforming of darkness into light and of apathy into movement without emotion."
"Men, as well as women, are much oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings."
"Men live by intervals of reason under the sovereignty of humor and passion."
"It's not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean."
"Under all that we think, lives all we believe, like the ultimate veil of our spirits."
"All perception of truth is the detection of an anology."
"Only in men's imagination does every truth find an effective and undeniable existence. Imagination, not invention is the supreme master of art, as of life."
"The belief that becomes truth for me.... Is that which allows me the best use of my strength, the best means of putting my virtues intoaction."
"Life is either a daring adventure or nothing."
The 4 most important things to look for in a partner
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What they say, they do.
INTEGRITYis paramount. It is linked to self worth within that individual and it builds trust. Someone who isn’t integral is more likely to be dishonest or to never follow through on their commitments.
Smart
This could range from someone who has an excellent education or is smart in other ways of life. Ultimately it comes down to being with someone who challenges you and pushes you to be better.
Love
A strong emotional connection is an important factor in building a sustainable relationship. You must be able to connect with your partner on an internal level for it to with-stand time. This is why they say best friends tend to make great partnerships as they have a strong foundation on an emotional level. Love can be defined in so many ways and only you can really determine what it feels like or looks like in a partnership.
Physical connection
Aside from having a strong emotional connection it is also paramount that you have a strong physical attraction. This is then broken down into two conditions. The external image isn’t everything but being physically attracted to your partner is very important long-term.
(i) Good Physical Condition: Not only for sex appeal or “eye candy” but because someone who is in physically good condition can perform better sexually. In general someone who is in good physical shape has better stamina and hygiene.
(ii) “Make Good Sex”: What he means here is learn what the other needs sexually in order for them to have maximum satisfaction. If your partner isn’t getting what they need sexually then they will likely look outside of the relationship in order to find it.
Detecting lies and deception
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- Formal rather than non formal
- will unconciously distance themself (distance language, like that woman).
- Much more to it than speech, we all chatter with our fingertips.
- Body language slips (throw assumptions away).
- Liars look a little too much in their eye.
- Eyes can't conciously smile.
Honest people will be on your side, cooperative, brain storm, provide details, infuriated through the entire course if honest, and when asking for punishment, they'll say strict rather than lenient.
While a deceptive person may be more withdrawn, look down, herky derky, lower voice, pause, pepper with way to much details in all kinds of irrelevant places.
Then go at it in chronological order, ask them to tell their story backwards, we rehearse our words, but we rarely rehearse our gestures, (just words)
Dupe delight:
(make one expression well masking another that leaks through in a flash)
expression of contempt <--- when anger turns to that, you've been dismissed, very hard to recover from,
one lip up and in.
More indicatiors:
shift their blink rate, feet towards an exit, barrier objects between, alter vocal tone, often lower. Not proof, just redlights, don't mean any of themself, but when you see clusters of them, look probe, ask questions.
Have a little dignity, don't be too aggressive, it doesn't work.
The most common wishes from people on their deathbed
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Wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
Wish I didn't work so hard.
I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
I wish that I had let myself be happier.
A random Idea, not sure if I cba.
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point system at the end of each week lol
relationship
eating
Body
mind/brain
contribution
vision/ethics (internal external)
(gi points før å gjør øvelsen)
career
vision
management
10 things to smile about every day
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- Internet porn
- My brain
- My creativity (which I use o so seldom lol)
- My penis (I've watched a lot of porn, and still not seen one as pretty as mine yay).
- How tenacious I can be at timez
- My average skill in games without playing much
- My thought process
- Being deep n shit
- My ability to endure unfathomable pain and suffering
- My humour (although I've been slacking a bit lately, I tend to do that whole punish myself thingy here n there)
Some questions ment to help you find your passion
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1) What do you think you're good at?
2) What makes you feel excited?
3) What makes you feel you belong to something else!
4) Try out all sorts of shit
(Don't judge a book by it's cover until you reach page 50).
Eight Celestial Divination gates
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1: Gate of opening
2: Gate of healing
3: Gate of life
4: Gate of Pain
5: Gate of limit
6: Gate of view
7: Gate of wonder
8: Gate of death
Kai: Release
links to awesome sites
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