Looks or Game?

On March 24 2008 10:28 Baal wrote: for the same reason Crocs were a big hit... just a case of mass bad taste.

come on, Crocs was a big hit simply because they are great!

wait... you say sex is overrated yet you say his first time should be special... makes no sense dude.

Sex is awesome, and enjoying it to its fullest its important, however the first time is not important.


I mean i love a nice juicy stake, i enjoy every second i chew it... but seriously i dont remember my first steak, who cares? it was just when you started tasting such a delicacy no more.

The "first" time is overrated its a dumb myth for 15yo girls to keep them virgin as long as possible, the same moral bullshit background but disguised as a retarded love story.

lol this is hilarious...
floofy i wouldnt get a hooker for the experience, 1) because ill always know i had to resort to it, which would lower my confidence if anything, and 2) because its experience doing the deed sure, but you're just going through the motions with someone who cant reject u. getting there with a girl you havent paid to fuck you is completely different, and i dont think the experience with a prostitute will even help that much.

seriously just keep putting yourself out there and it will all fall into place. but not overnight. you might not get laid for another year even, but you'll build on your experiences on a weekly basis and get more and more comfortable. Thats pretty much the way it works for everyone, so go pay your dues like the rest of us!

baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak.
i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl

i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend

imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something

On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something

You really don't have any clue what love is so I don't see how you think you can comment on it. The song reminds you of that friend because it was something he -always- did. That's different.

And nobody is telling you to go bone some ugly girl.


You know what I think? Stop focusing on sex or getting laid. It's not actually important. Your goal, as far as I know, was to gain experience interacting with girls and confidence and be able to talk and be around them. Maybe have it turn into something more. But rather than doing that you're trying to start relationships out of nothing with people you shouldn't be or focusing on the least important part of what somebody is.

Just go out there. Go meet people. Go to social events, bars, clubs, out with friends and meet their friends, take some classes and meet people their, whatever. Just go out there, talk to people, learn about them, learn about yourself, get to know yourself. Grow up and mature. Find a sense of style and a good groove to live in. Unless you're totally completely inept, things should fall into place eventually.

And y'know what? It'll probably take several years for all this to come into place. But I suppose all things that are worthwhile take time.

I still stand by virtually everything I've said in this thread. You need some perspective and you need your head in the right place. This is what you need to be doing. Not getting some whore. You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid.

On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something

i never compared love to a steak.

i compared sex to a steak.

Yes a song will remind you of events of your life, mainly because the ear and the sense of smell are extremely tied to the memory.

The first sexual experience is not defining nor that important, obviously if its ridiculously traumatic like a rape its gong to affect you in a future, but a bad experience or a non optimal wont change you, when i have sex i dont think of my first time... i just think "wooohoooooo!!!".


Going back to th silly steak analogy... when you eat a steak will you remember your first steak? no.... if the first time u eat it you choke and u nearly die, well u might remember it every time u eat steak again.

Actually that kind of ridiculous wish of "super especial first time" ruins sex for so many people especially girls, they expect to fall in love with their first guy to be all awesome and pretty and well... many times its just clumsy, akward and embarassing, or the guy will dump them the next day shattering their pink bubble.

On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something You really don't have any clue what love is so I don't see how you think you can comment on it. The song reminds you of that friend because it was something he -always- did. That's different. And nobody is telling you to go bone some ugly girl. You know what I think? Stop focusing on sex or getting laid. It's not actually important. Your goal, as far as I know, was to gain experience interacting with girls and confidence and be able to talk and be around them. Maybe have it turn into something more. But rather than doing that you're trying to start relationships out of nothing with people you shouldn't be or focusing on the least important part of what somebody is. Just go out there. Go meet people. Go to social events, bars, clubs, out with friends and meet their friends, take some classes and meet people their, whatever. Just go out there, talk to people, learn about them, learn about yourself, get to know yourself. Grow up and mature. Find a sense of style and a good groove to live in. Unless you're totally completely inept, things should fall into place eventually. And y'know what? It'll probably take several years for all this to come into place. But I suppose all things that are worthwhile take time. I still stand by virtually everything I've said in this thread. You need some perspective and you need your head in the right place. This is what you need to be doing. Not getting some whore. You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid.

ding

On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid.

Ding, indeed. Great post.

mmm steak...

Eh, Personally I think getting a hooker is pretty icky, thats just preference though. Don't see anything wrong or even pathetic about it if it's something you'ld enjoy.

How is it ever in any way pathetic to spend your money on something you want?

It might be fair to say it's pathetic if someone is completly unable to get a girl on there own when they want to and are trying to, but thats the same weather they use an escort or not.


Though, certainly agree that anyone who takes one out and pretends she's there girlfriend around others is pathetic and worthless.

On March 26 2008 13:16 RiKD wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote:   On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something You really don't have any clue what love is so I don't see how you think you can comment on it. The song reminds you of that friend because it was something he -always- did. That's different. And nobody is telling you to go bone some ugly girl. You know what I think? Stop focusing on sex or getting laid. It's not actually important. Your goal, as far as I know, was to gain experience interacting with girls and confidence and be able to talk and be around them. Maybe have it turn into something more. But rather than doing that you're trying to start relationships out of nothing with people you shouldn't be or focusing on the least important part of what somebody is. Just go out there. Go meet people. Go to social events, bars, clubs, out with friends and meet their friends, take some classes and meet people their, whatever. Just go out there, talk to people, learn about them, learn about yourself, get to know yourself. Grow up and mature. Find a sense of style and a good groove to live in. Unless you're totally completely inept, things should fall into place eventually. And y'know what? It'll probably take several years for all this to come into place. But I suppose all things that are worthwhile take time. I still stand by virtually everything I've said in this thread. You need some perspective and you need your head in the right place. This is what you need to be doing. Not getting some whore. You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid. ding

On March 26 2008 18:42 YoMeR wrote: mmm steak...

On March 27 2008 01:37 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 18:42 YoMeR wrote: mmm steak...

On March 26 2008 16:56 SemPeR wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid. Ding, indeed. Great post.

his post is very depressing thought

if an uplifting post on the internet in your one thousand reply thread about how to even talk to a girl depresses you then you're one fucked mother fucker who wont even bone an ugly girl

his post is basicelly saying i need to become good socially to get a girlfriend and that it will probably take years
to me, this is depressing

you 100% missed the point floofy
you need to become comfortable in your own skin, like yourself, start doing things for you instead of other people, and be happy.

FLOOFY COME TO VEGAS FOR WSOP PLZ, I HAVE TO SEE THIS

ONE TIME

On March 28 2008 13:00 Rekrul wrote: FLOOFY COME TO VEGAS FOR WSOP PLZ, I HAVE TO SEE THIS ONE TIME

buy him a plane ticket