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bigredhoss   Cook Islands. Sep 11 2015 07:45. Posts 8648 | | |
| On September 11 2015 04:33 TianYuan wrote:
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On September 11 2015 02:18 bigredhoss wrote:
lol sounds about right =D did you have to prove you're married somehow? i'd think there'd be a bunch of single guys on there who just want to find milfs otherwise.
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I'm not really sure what this site is exactly, but if you're going to cheat, why would you be adamant about the partner in crime also being in a relationship? Is it some kind of mutually assured destruction safe-guard or just a fetish or what?
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it's a site for married people to find other married people to cheat with afaik. i think the process was supposed to somehow be more discreet than a typical dating website. as for your question, i dunno, some combination of both i guess? i dunno, maybe they're fine with single people being on the site too, but it seems like it's mostly married/married. |
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bigredhoss   Cook Islands. Sep 11 2015 07:47. Posts 8648 | | |
| On September 11 2015 06:40 spugru wrote:
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On September 11 2015 01:34 bigredhoss wrote:
wife is cheating on you, doesn't love/care about you and will no longer fuck you. you have a child together, wife is not a good mother but will probably get custody if there's a divorce. she doesn't want a divorce due to social stigma with family/friends, you don't want a divorce because you want what's best for the child.
pretty easy to come up with other scenarios like this, and i don't think they're that uncommon.
also the cheating doesn't have to be 100% defensible to say someone doesn't deserve their info leaked. the degree of blame on the cheater just needs to be minimized a lot. |
They could easily just make a deal that they get to have other partners since it's clearly not working out and they are together just for the kid. That's not really an affair as I understand it. Nothing wrong with non-monogamy if both people agree with it.
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yeah but it's entirely possible the wife in that scenario is still not ok with it due to pride or whatever, or just being a psycho who thinks she can cheat but he can't. |
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bigredhoss   Cook Islands. Sep 11 2015 07:47. Posts 8648 | | |
| On September 11 2015 06:45 bigredhoss wrote:
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On September 11 2015 04:33 TianYuan wrote:
| On September 11 2015 02:18 bigredhoss wrote:
lol sounds about right =D did you have to prove you're married somehow? i'd think there'd be a bunch of single guys on there who just want to find milfs otherwise.
gg whamm |
I'm not really sure what this site is exactly, but if you're going to cheat, why would you be adamant about the partner in crime also being in a relationship? Is it some kind of mutually assured destruction safe-guard or just a fetish or what?
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it's a site for married people to find other married people to cheat with afaik. i think the process was supposed to somehow be more discreet than a typical dating website. as for your question, i dunno, some combination of both i guess? i dunno, maybe they're fine with single people being on the site too, but it seems like it's mostly married/married. |
ok, apparently singles can use it too: http://www.vice.com/read/im-a-single-woman-who-uses-ashley-madison-225 |
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Spitfiree   Bulgaria. Sep 11 2015 11:00. Posts 9634 | | |
| On September 11 2015 01:34 bigredhoss wrote:
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then you grow balls and divorce her
or be a man don't and live with the consequences
in that scenario both parents are retards and the kid will suffer the most |
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lucky331   . Sep 11 2015 12:12. Posts 1124 | | |
| On September 11 2015 01:58 whamm! wrote:
i think i made an account over there in 2009 LOL |
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the site consisted probably of millions of men en just 2000 women |
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LikeASet   United States. Sep 11 2015 13:07. Posts 2113 | | |
It's not cheating if you don't get caught. |
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dogmeat   Czech Republic. Sep 11 2015 14:22. Posts 6374 | | |
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Romm3l   Germany. Sep 11 2015 16:00. Posts 285 | | |
| On September 11 2015 00:51 Spitfiree wrote:
As far as im concerned anyone going for an affair deserve this and much more |
you sound like someone that would be happy living in a country that implements sharia law |
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LemOn[5thF]   Czech Republic. Sep 11 2015 18:50. Posts 15163 | | |
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jchysk   United States. Sep 11 2015 19:32. Posts 435 | | |
I was interviewed on a radio show a couple weeks ago about the details of this hack. The security was really weak on the site's part. They had been compromised for over a year and had no methods to detect infiltration. They also stored credentials to the payment processor on the servers which were then used to link back all the accounts to actual payment details.
This new detail about how they created this md5 hash with all lowercased versions of the passwords + usernames is pretty gross. Passwords are a very real problem. |
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YoMeR   United States. Sep 11 2015 19:58. Posts 12435 | | |
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bigredhoss   Cook Islands. Sep 11 2015 20:02. Posts 8648 | | |
| On September 11 2015 10:00 Spitfiree wrote:
then you grow balls and divorce her
or be a man don't and live with the consequences
in that scenario both parents are retards and the kid will suffer the most
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i think you either didn't understand or aren't willing to accept the parameters for the example i gave, because your reply makes no sense. |
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Santafairy   Korea (South). Sep 11 2015 20:46. Posts 2225 | | |
I had to change my xhamster profile to female just to get people to add me so I can see their secret videos, now I get tons of manspam. it's not surprising that something like ashley madison or adult friend finder has no women on it |
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Spitfiree   Bulgaria. Sep 11 2015 22:24. Posts 9634 | | |
No you don't understand that the parameters of the example you gave has consequences towards other parties like the kid. There s no way the environment would be stable in that scenario, if its stable then both parents would have an open relationship and there would be mutual consent in which case it wouldn't be an affair
I'm fine with people being scumbags as long as they don't try to justify it in a way that softens their action
That being said obviously the people responsible for the hacking should be trialed, but something tells me no one ll find them
@Romm3l i realize i come off as extreme in the circumstances, but you went beyond it. If basic moral principles are equivalent there s not much to be discussed |
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bigredhoss   Cook Islands. Sep 12 2015 00:03. Posts 8648 | | |
just because it's an unstable environment doesn't mean it's not the best of the available options for the child.
in fact, in my example, it is the best option available for the child.
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because it's part of the fucking parameters for my example -_-
so again, either you didn't understand the example or you're unwilling to accept the parameters. |
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Meat   . Sep 12 2015 14:40. Posts 3385 | | |
| On September 11 2015 00:51 Spitfiree wrote:
As far as im concerned anyone going for an affair deserve this and much more |
Being registered at such a site and considering an affair is very different from actually having an affair. Maybe someone looking for adventure after being married for ages changed his mind last second and got his / her act together?
Then there are also plenty of couples with an open relationship, but want to keep their private life private for their neighbourhood or family members. Many people are now screwed due to these guys leaking everything into the public.
Actually I wouldn't be shocked if I had an account on adult friend finder just to check it out. |
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brambolius   Netherlands. Sep 14 2015 00:01. Posts 1708 | | |
| On September 12 2015 13:40 Meat wrote:
Actually I wouldn't be shocked if I had an account on adult friend finder just to check it out. |
*covering self* |
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Drakk   Canada. Sep 16 2015 02:15. Posts 1199 | | |
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dogmeat   Czech Republic. Sep 16 2015 03:02. Posts 6374 | | |
i use "password" on sites i dont care about too |
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