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Nitewin   United States. Jun 08 2015 14:00. Posts 1539

She's seeing him for money. She told me straight up. But you have a point that I'm not the greatest man I could be.


punix   Germany. Jun 08 2015 16:34. Posts 406

dude... fuck her. she can do whatever she wants and with whoever she wants. you have to accept that
and should try to not care about that. i know that its very hard at the start but best thing you can do to forget about her is getting to know new people / girls


Daut    United States. Jun 08 2015 17:56. Posts 8955

People saying you need to get over her and move on are being unfair; it is not an easy process and takes time. In the past 18 months I've gone on dates with over 30 girls, have not dated one for more than a couple months, and had emotional or physical connections with quite a few of them; yet I still think and agonize about a couple that got away. Yesterday a girl who I went on one date with and never kissed told me she would have to "pass on a second date because she did not feel a romantic connection", and that put me in a funk for a couple hours. I won't even check the facebook or instagram of another I dated for 2 months because the pain of seeing a reality without me in it hurts too much. Being actually in love with one girl over a period of time orders of magnitude longer is much tougher to get over.

That said, while I was never fully in love with the girl who hurt me, she was not a literal whore. It is clear that your ex is not the girl for you. That realization will make the moving on transition easier. But besides that, you need to expand your life to include more friends, hobbies, and passions. Anyway, GL

NewbSaibot: 18 TIMES THE SPEED OF LIGHT. Because FUCK YOU, DautLast edit: 08/06/2015 18:00

punix   Germany. Jun 08 2015 19:57. Posts 406

dude i have been in some realtionsships that lasted way longer and i can tell you to get over her you have to met new awesome girls that you will be interested in


JohnnyBologna   United States. Jun 08 2015 20:24. Posts 1401


  On June 08 2015 04:01 Nitewin wrote:
Sugar baby, google it. She got paid 2500 for going to dinner with him. He's worth 30+ million.



pics??

Just do whats right 

Nitewin   United States. Jun 08 2015 22:14. Posts 1539

This isn't about her. Not gonna put her on the internet. This is about me trying to get back to a good place in life. Thanks all for your responses. I was feeling really down when I made the post. I'm feeling much better now. Thanks all!


fira   United States. Jun 09 2015 00:30. Posts 6345

I'm in a similar situation as you, and reading this thread was helpful, thanks.


dogmeat   Czech Republic. Jun 09 2015 04:46. Posts 6374

you shouldnt feel better coz you actually havent done anything to become a better person yet

ban baal 

thewh00sel    United States. Jun 09 2015 06:19. Posts 2734

if youre actually depressed, therapy. Doesn't sound like you have any close friends to talk to, and that sucks. Most people I know don't have even one close friend to talk to about important stuff, so make that a priority I guess. The way to do that imo is to be super honest with everyone who you think you're friends with. Tell them the stuff they're doing that you think is incorrect and ask their opinions on things that you're doing/have done. Don't just gloss over important topics just because you have different opinions. If you think someone is making a mistake in their personal relationships bring it up. You will find out if your friends are real or you will become closer friends with the ones you have.

Have some deeper conversations with your parents about things you have in common. Your childhood is a start, you both know what happened there, bring up things that bothered you and things that you loved. As a parent, I know I love if my daughter tells me the things that I did that she loved and what we should work on each day. She's obv much younger, but I can't see that bond disappearing with age. If your parents deny certain things that you went through that they neglected to help you with, try to find out why. If they still deny their involvement in your childhood pain, move on. A new city might work, but I would try all of these ideas on a smaller scale (your own hometown) first. Hope some of that helps.

A government is the most dangerous threat to man’s rights: it holds a legal monopoly on the use of physical force against legally disarmed victims. - Ayn Rand 

Nitewin   United States. Jun 09 2015 13:19. Posts 1539


  On June 09 2015 03:46 dogmeat wrote:
you shouldnt feel better coz you actually havent done anything to become a better person yet



If a sailor is lost a sea, he's gonna be scared not knowing if his crew is going to make it. He's only got a certain amount of rations to live on. Let's say he remembers that he can use the stars to guide him. He hasn't traveled anywhere yet but he's going to feel better knowing where he is and where he's going.


Liquid`Drone   Norway. Jun 09 2015 17:27. Posts 3093


  On June 09 2015 03:46 dogmeat wrote:
you shouldnt feel better coz you actually havent done anything to become a better person yet



he made this thread and opened up about his feelings and vulnerabilities which in turn made other people open up with their feelings and own vulnerabilities and part of his problem was feeling lonely but now he sees that other people feel or have been feeling similarly in the past, he no longer feels like his problems are only his own etc etc

anyway, personal growth can be achieved through conversation and contemplation. not always, but sometimes, and it's totally fine to feel better about yourself and your life.

besides emotions are kinda cyclical anyway. you might as well have said you shouldn't feel worse about yourself coz you didn't do anything to become a worse person as an original response to his depression.

lol POKER 

dogmeat   Czech Republic. Jun 09 2015 20:36. Posts 6374

this world is full of ppl trying to achieve personal growth ' through conversation and contemplation' aka complaing about their fucked up life and doing nothing about it

ban baal 

traxamillion   United States. Jun 10 2015 17:10. Posts 10468

You are wrong on this one Dogmeat. While certainly he has work to do in order to improve his overall happiness in life a little commiseration and understanding, even hopeful advice, from this board has lifted his spirits and given him some hope. Why knock that. He didn't say all is well just that he felt a little better hearing from others about similar circumstances and issues.

First and most important thing is to move past your ex, half of the problem with the breakup I suspect is the hit you took to your self esteem when she left you. Not just that you miss the girl. I've been there, more so when I was younger in earlier relationships, and the best remedy (if shallow) is to just have another girl want you again. Try tinder. If you really did love her and she was a good girl then it is a little harder, took me over a year to get over my last girl which was very unusual but she was great and I fucked it up on my own. Ur girl sounds like she's whoring which should allow you to place her beneath you in your mind and get over it faster.


cariadon   Estonia. Jun 10 2015 21:42. Posts 4019

fuck the past, you can change instantly if you want to...
i suggest reading philosophy


dogmeat   Czech Republic. Jun 11 2015 15:42. Posts 6374

ban baal 

LemOn[5thF]   Czech Republic. Jun 11 2015 17:18. Posts 15163


  On June 09 2015 19:36 dogmeat wrote:
this world is full of ppl trying to achieve personal growth ' through conversation and contemplation' aka complaing about their fucked up life and doing nothing about it



just posting here and asking is an action in itself tho no?

93% Sure!  

traxamillion   United States. Jun 11 2015 17:27. Posts 10468

I think being unhappy is a far more complicated (and forgiveable) issue than being fat as fuck


Spitfiree   Bulgaria. Jun 12 2015 23:04. Posts 9634

There are plenty of people that have the EQ of a retarded donkey that think they re all great but actually project their inner suffering to others

Guess which one is worse


Also i don't suggest reading philosophy, but psychology instead, its much more helpful

 Last edit: 12/06/2015 23:06

Mortensen8   Chad. Jul 01 2015 14:26. Posts 1841

Very interesting just as a reply to all of the calls for meditation

Rear naked woke 

lebowski   Greece. Sep 27 2015 12:58. Posts 9205

damn too late for this blog entry
dogmeat has some good points
you have to feel good for yourself and not hide your weaknesses behind a relationship
First you have to find a way to enjoy living alone, the fact that when you do people will be more attracted to your personality should be just a side effect
(simply faking confidence and individuality is dumb)

new shit has come to light... a-and... shit! man...Last edit: 27/09/2015 12:59

 
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