Looks or Game?

Finish this thread already and go read pickup forums, practise more, i.e. never focus on one girl, I say go to a nightclub and make a conversation about random things with at leat 30 girls in 3 hours, try to involve as much sexual contest as u can. It doesnt matter wtf the replies will be and what they think about it, u just need to do it to get more confidence and convo expirience. The more u doing it the better u become, practice makes perfect. Should learn to talk to them like it's your old friend who will understand u anyways, even if girl extremely hot one. Obv u will fail many times, but remeber that every attepmt u didn't do is a failure too.

ffs should hold myself from posting it.
hope god almighty keep little floofys away from posting at lp

On March 08 2008 14:11 okyougosu wrote: Finish this thread already and go read pickup forums, practise more, i.e. never focus on one girl, I say go to a nightclub and make a conversation about random things with at leat 30 girls in 3 hours, try to involve as much sexual contest as u can. It doesnt matter wtf the replies will be and what they think about it, u just need to do it to get more confidence and convo expirience. The more u doing it the better u become, practice makes perfect. Should learn to talk to them like it's your old friend who will understand u anyways, even if girl extremely hot one. Obv u will fail many times, but remeber that every attepmt u didn't do is a failure too.

He just needs to understand that he's not going to connect with everybody but you aren't going to find anybody that you do just by sitting around and not talking to people. You need to go out and start conversations with people and every once in awhile you'll find somebody who you really love talking to and have a good time with. Expecting that from every outing is just silly though.

On March 08 2008 11:44 Floofy wrote: i just saw her on cam. she has really nice eyes and alright looking face.

oh cool good for you

On March 08 2008 11:44 Floofy wrote: problem is she seems a bit fat. and fat rly turns me off.

AHAHAHAHAHAHA

can someone explain me how having a relationship with her would abuse her? i think she would have a lot to gain from me. you are right 4 years ago i was a lot less mature but i don't see why she would prefer an immature guy

i was kinda looking for younger chick cuz:
#1 chikcs like older guys
#2 im unexperienced, if my chick had mad experience it would be akward

the only way it would be abuse is if, im actually not really serious about the whole thing

Because her lack of experience makes it so she doesn't know any better. That's why.

You're trying to fulfill your own desires and the fact that she's inexperienced is what is allowing you to do so. You shouldn't be taking advantage of that fact. Doing so makes you pathetic.

There is a reason people who are experienced don't want to be with you. And it's not merely a product of you being inexperienced. If you think your lack of experience makes you awkward then that's your problem, not theirs.

Your awkwardness makes you awkward, not your inexperience. Going after somebody who is inexperienced as a way of overcoming your awkwardness is disgusting. Overcome your awkwardness by your own means, not by taking advantage of somebody else's.

I don't think anyone mentioned any abuse. The thing is it's hard to connect with a much younger girl (being teenagers) because they are mostly too immature and don't have enough living experiences to be on the same level as you, of course there are exceptions. Therefore, you have to do what you have to do right now, which isn't a real relation, so thats where the taking advantage of takes from... You are using her because she is inexperienced, and because you believe theres more chances she will like you than an older and more intelligent girl. You are just looking to get experience, you are not serious about the whole thing, dont lie to yourself and us.

edit: meh I wouldve looked less stupid if freak had posted a bit after

no until i saw her cam i was seirous about the whole thing. i thought she was beautiful and our msn chat was very cool. sure im a bit more mature but i dont see the problem. i can take her to places n shit.

but she has hidden her weight and weight turn me off. but her face is cute and she have amazing eyes. so im confused. i think ill meet her and if its that bad ill just act AFC and so nothing will happen and it will just be a cool friendly night. if i think shes cute (cam doesnt mean much anyways) then ill go for it

connecting with young girls is slam dunk easy, they think guys outa college with a normal job are ballers, just get an expensive watch and its slam dunk connect on the first night

and floofy, any guy that tries to find girls on the internet is an idiot, not only are you going to be very dissapointed with her looks (yeah even by ur standards) but you're probably going to get turned off real fast by her insecure personality

hell if u wanna practice go play low stakes poker at a casino and only sit in games with nice people and just socialize there....n/m wtf am i talking about everyone at casinos are degen loser fucks

floofy give me your msn id / pw ill talk to her for you and see wtf is rly up with her

god i wanna see the convo u had

'hehe i saw that movie too : - ) '

'wow u so hansom'

'oh you're eyes are so pretty ~~~~~'

give me ur msn, i wanna be ur friend ur the cutest guy ever (no sarcasm)

ROFL rek

and what you said about insecure girls on the internet(which works for guys too obv) is sooo true. but he could be lucky enough to find one who isn't insecure, but shes like... never going to be attractive.

lol

actually back when i was an idiot, and had first came to korea (progaming career in process of failing) i signed up for korean friend finder

assem had a korean friend finder account and met a girl who was getting naked on webcam for him, so i figured what the hell trying can't hurt (and he got embarassed when we saw it and tried to hide it??? lOL??? BRAG PLEASE????)

me and joel met some girl from there and got her msn, then we met up with her...she was completely different from the picture, and a bit ugly, but one of those girls that is a bit tubby with big tits but not big enough to make up for being tubby (not that big tits make up for tubbyness like ever) and 5 mins after we met her we just went into this club, she immediately asked which one of us is going to fuck her tonight

frown.

wait maybe thats smile for floofy

if you want two dollar whores search on the internet

if you want a normal relationship leave your house

you should probably go for the two dollar whores at first, and cuz its ezer and u can build up ur confidence so that you don't end up a little faggy bitch in a real relationship who gets dumped cuz he didnt know how to act alpha

On March 08 2008 14:32 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: Show nested quote + On March 08 2008 14:11 okyougosu wrote: Finish this thread already and go read pickup forums, practise more, i.e. never focus on one girl, I say go to a nightclub and make a conversation about random things with at leat 30 girls in 3 hours, try to involve as much sexual contest as u can. It doesnt matter wtf the replies will be and what they think about it, u just need to do it to get more confidence and convo expirience. The more u doing it the better u become, practice makes perfect. Should learn to talk to them like it's your old friend who will understand u anyways, even if girl extremely hot one. Obv u will fail many times, but remeber that every attepmt u didn't do is a failure too. He just needs to understand that he's not going to connect with everybody but you aren't going to find anybody that you do just by sitting around and not talking to people. You need to go out and start conversations with people and every once in awhile you'll find somebody who you really love talking to and have a good time with. Expecting that from every outing is just silly though.

Yes he should connect with every girl he find attractive. Hes not going to get laid, just talk. He should just feel free to talk whatever he want to anyone like he do lets say with parents or this forum. At like 17 I was similar to floofy, then I changed my mindset about all the bitches and somehow things turned pretty well=)
Fuck it enough theory about realtionships is as useful as reading books to learn swimming. Just need more hu/3-way action with different girls.

actually floofy you should also go for asian girls, now that im in vegas i see all the time a decent/good looking white dude with a 2 dollar ugly trash asian whore of a girlfriend. they probably think they are the shit too YEAH THATS ME TAPPIN DAT AZN ASS BOiiiii !!!

they will overrate you and you will overrate them, confidence and fun all around

god i remember i was like that too when i first came to korea, good thing i dont have a special thing for asians, cause if i did i could never get one in the states all those ugly azn girls thinking they are soo hot speaking with ratty fucking voices and self esteem up the gajizzle ANNOYING

not that being a tall white dude in korea doesn't empower me the same way, which kinda makes me a hypocrite, but at least im not a ratty azn 2 cent hoe

rek makes me paranoid every time i look at an asian chick now

i cant believe no one is responding to me, im bored come on guys lets fight