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cariadon   Estonia. Feb 16 2008 18:27. Posts 1897 | | |
How is being yourself and buying them flowers in such bad shape? =( Yugless what did you vote?
Floofy: Fuck the game and fuck pretty fancy clothes. Accept who you are. You don't need to change your life (gym, drinking, pretty clothes you might feel uncomfortable in etc) just change your mindset. If you don't like yourself it is impossible for anyone else to like you. |
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Floofy   Canada. Feb 16 2008 18:36. Posts 6597 | | |
cariadon what kind of sucess u have with girls? i think this is a terrible advice
dressing well isn't completly against my personality i just never cared about it mainly due to lazyness and hate of fashion. of course i won't wear stuff that totally doesn't fit me
gym wouldnt only be for girls, it would be good for my health and could be usefull for future works or whatever.
and this isnt "changing myself" its more like improving myself. if i dont improve i will either stay lonely or maybe get some ugly chick if i get lucky |
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cariadon   Estonia. Feb 16 2008 19:09. Posts 1897 | | |
Floofy i have been together with my gf for over a year.
Gym was just part of the example.
Reverse the situation: Would you like to be the ugly guy who some depressed chick might get if lucky?
If you get comfortable with who you are you will become more confident. |
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Tien   Canada. Feb 16 2008 19:20. Posts 1139 | | |
Cariadon your advice is wrong about dressing well and working on your game.
No one was born knowing how to "pick up" girls, just like no one was born how to walk. You either improve yourself or you stay the way you are, no two ways about it. Some people are born with more natural skill in the picking up girls department, while others are born with more natural skill in solving physics problems. We're all different and we all have strengths and weaknesses.
Dressing well is extremely important. The advice is not to become like exalted and obsess over it or dress up like a gino. Just look sharp that's all. There's nothing fancy about looking sharp and wearing clothes that fit well.
The way you think about yourself is directly proportionate to the way people think about you. If dressing sharp and looking sharp helps you improve in that category, then by all means do it.
If inside you tell yourself: "I dress well, look sharp, and I handle myself confidently", that is the exact impression people will get with you.
People judge books by their cover. Find someone that says they don't judge people on first impressions by their looks and I'll show you a liar.
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Tien   Canada. Feb 16 2008 19:32. Posts 1139 | | |
| | On February 16 2008 16:21 Floofy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 16 2008 14:23 Tien wrote:
By the way floofy what does your life look like?
What is a typical day like? |
you probably wanted to go somewhere with that question. what was the point?
i know having an interesting life obv helps but i dunno where to start
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Yeah I was trying to find figure out things that you do daily that could be of interest to people. The more interesting things you do, the more interesting people start flocking to you. And the more interesting things you do, the more people will see (subconsciously) that you are someone with purpose and ambitions.
The more you see yourself as someone with things to do and ambitions that you are going after, the more confidence you have in yourself and the more people will see that in you.
Men and women find that attractive in a person.
A lot of this is merely playing around and programming your subconscious mind to achieve a certain result you want. |
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cariadon   Estonia. Feb 16 2008 19:46. Posts 1897 | | |
Tien: i agree with everything you say.
| | On February 16 2008 18:36 Floofy wrote:
dressing well isn't completly against my personality i just never cared about it mainly due to lazyness and hate of fashion. of course i won't wear stuff that totally doesn't fit me
if i get lucky |
All i'm trying to say is clothes or game won't get you far without being the person someone would like to be with. Lazyness - negative, hate of anything - negative, using words like doesn't - negative, against - negative. everything Floofy says may be regarded as negative. Nobody likes negative people =(
Ps. ban Floofy |
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Floofy   Canada. Feb 16 2008 19:50. Posts 6597 | | |
what kind of interesting things are you refering to?
cariadon how can you agree with someone who says almost the opposite of what you say? but yea i agree with most of what tien said. |
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Tien   Canada. Feb 16 2008 19:51. Posts 1139 | | |
Ok I misunderstood what you said then.
And by the way, what you say about "negatives" is extremely important.
Anyways, Floofy report back to LP next week. |
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sawseech   Canada. Feb 16 2008 19:55. Posts 1457 | | |
cariadon is exactly wrong about everything
do the opposite and you will rule the world by 2042 |
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Tien   Canada. Feb 16 2008 20:02. Posts 1139 | | |
| | On February 16 2008 19:50 Floofy wrote:
what kind of interesting things are you refering to?
cariadon how can you agree with someone who says almost the opposite of what you say? but yea i agree with most of what tien said. |
It really doesn't even matter what you are doing per se. As long as you are not like everyone else.
If your average day is exactly like the guy next to you's average day, you're boring.
If your experiences in life are exactly like every other average joe's experiences, you're boring.
Nothing you do at the moment in your life will have girls saying "I wanna know more about this guy".
I'm not saying living an interesting life will have an immediate impact on your game, but it will help your confidence levels.
I can go more and more into this but I'm too damn lazy to. I think you have enough from this thread to get started.
Post more pics of your sister's friend. |
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cariadon   Estonia. Feb 16 2008 20:06. Posts 1897 | | |
| | On February 16 2008 19:50 Floofy wrote:
what kind of interesting things are you refering to?
cariadon how can you agree with someone who says almost the opposite of what you say? but yea i agree with most of what tien said. |
Interesting as in the things you might discuss/share/enjoy talking about / / with a girl.
I'm not disagreeing with anyone i'm saying you should work on being a Floofy someone would like to hang out with in a weird way. |
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spets1   Australia. Feb 16 2008 20:18. Posts 439 | | |
I have an idea,
WE should have an LP makeover. Like say someone who wants to ie floofy buys some clothes and then makes some photos, and the rest will help out by saying if its sharp or not etc so that way we can help out other ppl to looks more attractive to opposite sex n stuff.
Same goes with hair etc. Id be actually interested myself cos im hopeless with hair, i dont usually use gel which may be a disadvantage but i dont have experience with gel to make my hair looks good or if i do im not sure if it looks good or not.
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Floofy   Canada. Feb 16 2008 20:23. Posts 6597 | | |
spets, thats exactly what im doing atm. your free to do it if you want |
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MiPwnYa   France. Feb 16 2008 20:23. Posts 893 | | |
this thread is hilarious
gl floofy  |
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MiPwnYa   France. Feb 16 2008 20:23. Posts 893 | | | |
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Floofy   Canada. Feb 16 2008 20:34. Posts 6597 | | |
fine u deserved it

not her best pic but that other chick shes with is hot |
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cariadon   Estonia. Feb 16 2008 20:36. Posts 1897 | | |
MiPwnYa that's just an image Baal googled to make him look scary at the tables ;p
j/k
spets1 that's an awful idea. |
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Yugless   United States. Feb 16 2008 20:38. Posts 5803 | | |
floofy one day you're going to realize how ridiculous this is and how easy it is to just go up to a girl, relax, and talk to her. |
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Tien   Canada. Feb 16 2008 20:38. Posts 1139 | | |
She looks like 16.
She's cute though. |
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Yugless   United States. Feb 16 2008 20:42. Posts 5803 | | |
trust me, as much as you idolize him you don't want to be the sleazy rekrul type. any girl worth having can see through "game" a mile away and isn't impressed by it. |
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