On May 21 2012 12:10 tutz wrote:
so 3 hours doing some kinda of fap/porn related thing seems to be an obvious commom thing here?
I dont think I ever passed over 40 minutes ever, how long can you guys last while fucking a chick?
usually I come after like 20-25 minutes, but I guess you guys can fuck the chicks brains out
Watched porn since internet, first time I had sex we stopped since she started to get sore after 1 hour 10 or more lol, but my mind was elsewhere, since I got rejected trying to go different hole, and other fun positions I thought were normal.
This looks really awesome, does it count if you just fap once or twice a week without internet? Or is it no fapping whatsoever allowed?
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qwerty67890 New Zealand. May 26 2012 19:38. Posts 14026
On May 26 2012 07:32 HiyAfOu wrote:
hey guys,
I also took the challenge, too bad i made it for 4 days only
My symptoms are different than your tho ( i don't have blue balls or any pain) - First 2 days are ez, but starting from 3rd day these thoughts come, they're overwhelming, i only could think of fapping/porn, i couldn't concentrate on ANYTHING ELSE.
I couldn't study, i couldn't work, i was irritated and started being aggressive towards other people because of it. I don't think I would EVER last more than a week with no fap even if someone offered me like a $1mill for this. And on the 4th day when i couldn't resist fapping , i did it like 5 times in that 1 day...
It doesnt stay like that for the duration, the first few days all you can think about is how much you wanna bust one out and you just walk around wanting to fuck everything within a 3 mile radius, it settles down quickly after that.
On May 26 2012 16:20 ParadoxPLZ wrote:
hooray day 6
i felt some strong urges a few times; i've noticed them especially when i'm trying to sleep, anyone else get that?
Yeh, im trying to get out of bed asap when i wake up otherwise i just sit there thinking about boning.
On May 21 2012 12:10 tutz wrote:
so 3 hours doing some kinda of fap/porn related thing seems to be an obvious commom thing here?
I dont think I ever passed over 40 minutes ever, how long can you guys last while fucking a chick?
usually I come after like 20-25 minutes, but I guess you guys can fuck the chicks brains out
Watched porn since internet, first time I had sex we stopped since she started to get sore after 1 hour 10 or more lol, but my mind was elsewhere, since I got rejected trying to go different hole, and other fun positions I thought were normal.
This looks really awesome, does it count if you just fap once or twice a week without internet? Or is it no fapping whatsoever allowed?
Some people continue to fap, breaking the cycle of browsing porn and escalating to more extreme porn is the worst cycle. People still fap with their imagination. I think its down to personal preference though.
Im just gonna give it the full reset, for maximum results.
day 4 is over im doing pretty well actually, whenever i had a bad session i felt angry (kind of tilt problem) and the only way that i could calm myself was with porn, today had a really bad day and the 'urge' was almost gone. (and the inverse effect when having a good session, so it was a daily cycle)
Based on what I've read at yourbrainonporn.com, optimally you shouldn't fap at all because it teaches your brain to expect more, and so people experience stronger cravings a couple days or so after fap. If you must fap though focus on the sensation and avoid using imagination since it will activate some vulnerable brain pathways such as giving you more of that porn dopamine, and you'll be giving yourself a harder time in your quest for a brain reboot. Keep in mind though that eventually, when you're healthy (months afterwards), normal sexual fantasies about other people are okay and actually encouraged in some cases.
But yeah, fapping seems to delay the reboot a bit, so if you can figure out a way to not fap at all then it'll probably be easier and faster for you in the long-run. Also, optimally, and this is gonna sound extreme but it's entirely possible, you should avoid having an orgasm if you do have sex, keeping in mind that there are things you can do with your partner that are actually encouraged and beneficial for you, such as trying to enjoy and so teach your brain about the stuff during sex that we're naturally hard-wired to enjoy--kissing touching smelling etc, and you can even arrange an agreement with your partner if you want where you can get your partner off and abstain yourself. It's not the end of the world if you orgasm with your partner while your on your "brain reboot" but there are some downsides to it such as delaying your progress, and increasing your risk of stronger cravings, that you might wanna read up about.
Anyways there's a ton more stuff at yourbrainonporn.com which provides a better explanation of all this.
End of day 6 I'm realizing how useful it is to have stuff to occupy your time with. I experience growing temptation if I'm ever left idle, as the saying goes. Once the temptation sets in it takes a bit of effort to shake it off. I read something useful though on feedtherightwolf.org. basically addicts of all kind experience similar things when their in a state of craving, and one of the common things addicts unconsciously gravitate too is short and fast breathing. A useful technique it recommends and which I've also found helpful whenever I'm in this state of craving is consciously going slow and deep breath, a lot like meditation teaches you. Slow deep breathing is useful when it comes to managing a lot of emotions, since our emotions seem to be intricately tied with our physiology, and I've found the advice works here for resisting porn cravings too.
Oh ok, ty Byrne, and I really like the last part of ^ text.
I'm a devil with the short breaths thingy, really "good" at it, trying to plug leak.
I put up a ss of nature n shit, I bet that helps a lot, a lot of green in the picture, that's good I think.
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EvilSky Czech Republic. May 27 2012 14:54. Posts 8915
In the last few days Ive found myself attracted to a 50 year old woman, checked out a couple 14/15 year olds on the street and today I saw a woman walking a dog and proceeded to think she must be fucking it and how... HELP
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bigredhoss Cook Islands. May 27 2012 15:19. Posts 8648
lololol
Truck-Crash Life
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Stroggoz New Zealand. May 27 2012 16:20. Posts 5296
On May 27 2012 13:54 EvilSky wrote:
In the last few days Ive found myself attracted to a 50 year old woman, checked out a couple 14/15 year olds on the street and today I saw a woman walking a dog and proceeded to think she must be fucking it and how... HELP
:o thats normal for me except for the dog thing, and i fap at least twice a day.
One of 3 non decent human beings on a site of 5 people with between 2-3 decent human beings
Last edit: 27/05/2012 16:21
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jeffv8x_-_16 Belgium. May 27 2012 17:15. Posts 2835
On May 27 2012 14:19 bigredhoss wrote:
lololol
how can u shove the river, he cant possibly call with worse -TalentedTom
Where is the government conspiracy theorist with his ridiculous threads ... forgot his nick. Anyways this must be a government project making all of the males population's subconscious violent turning us into agressive mofos. Dont succumb to it! Dont trust me ?
In the last few days Ive found myself attracted to a 50 year old woman, checked out a couple 14/15 year olds on the street and today I saw a woman walking a dog and proceeded to think she must be fucking it and how... HELP
On May 27 2012 13:54 EvilSky wrote:
In the last few days Ive found myself attracted to a 50 year old woman, checked out a couple 14/15 year olds on the street and today I saw a woman walking a dog and proceeded to think she must be fucking it and how... HELP
man you have to let nature take it's course
this is an educational video that I should probably cross post on the "prisoners dilemma" thread, as a comment on whether morality is a human construct =P
new shit has come to light... a-and... shit! man...
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EvilSky Czech Republic. May 28 2012 07:30. Posts 8915
Im a week in and Im a bit worried that it might have some negative physical effects besides the dementia I seem to be developing :O
But overall I think this week has been quite productive so Im gonna keep at it.
On May 28 2012 02:03 Spitfiree wrote:
Where is the government conspiracy theorist with his ridiculous threads ... forgot his nick. Anyways this must be a government project making all of the males population's subconscious violent turning us into agressive mofos. Dont succumb to it! Dont trust me ?
In the last few days Ive found myself attracted to a 50 year old woman, checked out a couple 14/15 year olds on the street and today I saw a woman walking a dog and proceeded to think she must be fucking it and how... HELP
//enough
P.S. in before the "No-fapping terorrist group "
LOL
and epic thread :D
if poker is dangerous to them i would rank sports betting as a Kodiak grizzly bear who smells blood after you just threw a javelin into his cub - RaiNKhAN
Czech Republic. May 27 2012 14:54. Posts 8915
